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This guy at my work keeps touching me like putting his hand on my back or my shoulder, he even touched my waist at one point. I never get irritated but the one thing that irritates me is this I've found out. I hate it. Maybe I'm being too touchy but I proper feel uncomfortable like ugh get off
BellaLocura · 51-55, F
That's ridiculous. Tell him to get the fuck off or talk to HR. His behavior is condescending and disrespectful at best.
Itsprincess · 22-25, F
I'd get fired 😂 Thank you
BellaLocura · 51-55, F
Sure, I was being facetious about the "get the fuck off"...say something along the lines of "I would appreciate it if you would respect my personal space and not touch me. Thanks."
Itsprincess · 22-25, F
@BellaLocura: haha it's what I say in my head tho😛 Alright, thank you😊
SW-User
If it's making you uncomfortable, please talk to HR or your boss about it. Or next time he does it, voice your concern and just say "i'm sorry but that makes me feel uncomfortable." Nothing wrong with that. :) He shouldn't be touching you in the first place.
Itsprincess · 22-25, F
Alright I'll say it like that and if he doesn't stop I'll tell the main manager, thank you😊
SW-User
@Itsprincess: No worries girly, good luck.
Itsprincess · 22-25, F
@DropsofJupiter: thankss b😊💕
JaneDoe23 · F
What he is doing is illegal, do not blame yourself. You have every right to speak up. I would start by telling him to stop and if that doesn't work then report it. He has no right to be touching you inappropriately.
Itsprincess · 22-25, F
Thanks for understanding. Okay I'll do that thank you 😊
cherokeepatti · 61-69, F
You have to speak up and tell him to knock it off. Otherwise it's not considered harassment if you allow it to continue.
Itsprincess · 22-25, F
Okay I think I'll just move or something. Thank you
SW-User
you can tell him to stop
Itsprincess · 22-25, F
@pieface: yeah true true
SW-User
@Itsprincess: ask him what he wants politely
Itsprincess · 22-25, F
@Jess26: I don't think that's possible to say polite aha
SW-User
Slap him on the ass and tell him to keep his hands off the merchandise toots.
Itsprincess · 22-25, F
Lmao😂😂
Sparklingwindd · 41-45, M
You may have to speak up and the convey your concern to the HR or owner of the business .
Itsprincess · 22-25, F
Yeah if it continues, thanks 😊
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Itsprincess · 22-25, F
I know!! He's one of the managers in the restaurant though and if I told the main manager I'd look like a bitch because it isn't a big deal
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Itsprincess · 22-25, F
@MalteseFalconPunch: yeah good point, thanks for understanding!
Tatsumi · 31-35, M
First step is to tell him that it makes you uncomfortable when he touches you. If he doesn't stop, then go to HR. And trust me. People will understand.
bhatjc · 46-50, M
Find out if he is doing that to other female staffers as well. Then you all go to HR with that problem. Then see what happens. HR doesn't want a class action lawsuit
SW-User
Why would you blame yourself for being uncomfortable?

 
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