Mama is right, right?

Mom banned me from seeing my friend ever again because he's normal and i'm in a wheelchair even though i've known him for years before i got disabled and started using a wheelchair. She says disabled people should only be friends with disabled people. She judged my friend because he's at a low in his life right now and concluded that he's after money from me. She said the only reason a normal person would be friends with a disabled person is because of money. I cannot really say why he's stayed friends with me despite me being disabled but what i know is that he's been there for me when i needed somebody to talk to and i've tried my best to listen to him when he needed somebody to talk to but my mom doesn't want us to hang out. What hurts the most is that i'm 27 but because of my disability people force me to do what they want when they want and i can't do nothing about it. What i miss the most about being! normal is my independence