Would their secret be safe with you? SO my 13 year old niece came out to me as bi-sexual...

Keep it private if that's what they asked.

Oh, yes. This is a big deal. I was 22 years old before I came out to my parents. I would respect whatever her wishes were. It’s truly awesome she trusts you like that. This is probably one of the biggest deals of her entire life. Be safe and be well.

Alison · 18-21, F

Kids are always tellimg me stuff and asking questions, same as adults really. I ain't gonna tell nobody anything.

Deeana081971 · F

Until she comes out yo her family keep it as your little secret and support her as much as you can.

DeWayfarer · 61-69, M

No I wouldn't tell.

Yet given other values I unfortunately understand why some would tell.

It's funny that you find it ok for her to have sleep overs with other girls yet not ok to do the same with boys or say a mix group of boys and girls. Especially since you're not ok for her to have a girl friend over.

She could see that as confusing if not hypocritical.

I understand she is too young. Yet at the same time would expect her to invite certain girls for a sleepover just because of experimentation.

Hope you realize this.