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A married woman was going through a lot of emotional turmoil in her life before , she had problems with her husband and one night down in a beach she made a move for ne and I stopped her , so I messaged her that night and told I cant meet up with her no more . The following day she called up to my house and that night she asked did I wanma go for a spin so I said yes . We ended up in a beach and she met me and it happened again about 5 times .
So then I realized she was getting back at her husband over what he did to her and took it out on me .
After when it finished she turned around to me and said smiling " you like the bad girls" and that's what happened . I never went the full way with her but do you think it's a sin in gods eyes what happened cause being honest my soul isn't right since it happened. The same woman ended up meeting another 4 fellas in that time to get back at her husband and she told me that the love wasnt there no more . I dunno how she's doing nowadays cause I didnt see her in a long time . I hope she's doing better but most of my life the emotional problems or turmoil I went through , the common denominator is woman in my life ,
I cant understand that or is it that are all woman like that . I just need to know that honestly cause when I'm not with then I'm more content and I dont feel that theres a threat in my life when I'm not with them . I cant hit them all with the one brush but all my experiences of pain had to do with woman and when I was younger I got hurt bad by this fella and then I started to look for a woman in my life for comfort .
Can anyone out there figure out this pattern . I'd really appreciate it
Not all women fool around with other men while unhappily married. Some of us have more self-respect than that. We would either try to resolve the marriage or [b]leave[/b] it rather than involving a third party.
This one woman should not be a yardstick by which you measure others that you will meet.
riseofthemachine · 41-45, M
@bijouxbroussard at least you have to guys to leave without cheating , saves the other person a lot less pain .
riseofthemachine · 41-45, M
At least you have the guts I ment to leave
@riseofthemachine Leaving because you’re unhappy is [b]honest[/b]. Cheating is dishonest and causes more complications.
MellyMel22 · F
[i][c=#BF0080]I’m sorry if it comes across mean, but she was married and you were aware and went along with it, so what did you expect? [/c][/i]
SinlessOnslaught · 26-30, M
It was a sin, yes. But all sins are the same in God's eyes and he's perfectly willing to forgive you. If you still have bad feelings about that, it's for some reason other than him not forgiving you.
riseofthemachine · 41-45, M
@SinlessOnslaught I didnt do much and that's being honest . The problem with ne is I cant forgive myself
SinlessOnslaught · 26-30, M
@riseofthemachine God's forgiveness is unconditional. Have faith in him to forgive you no matter what. He forgave you before it even happened.
MURD3RM0NK3Y · 26-30, M
Oh yeah god is gonna punish all of us buddy. There is no escape. Nothing is hidden from the most high.
RedBaron · M
Ever hear of making a long story short, eg "tell it in a nutshell?"
riseofthemachine · 41-45, M
@RedBaron ever hear of minding your own fucking business
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Nobody00 · F
What can’t you forgive yourself? Sleeping about 5 times with her at the beach. I don’t get it I’m confused
Nobody00 · F
Wait you feel sorry for these women so you have sex with them?
riseofthemachine · 41-45, M
@Nobody00 for a starters I never had sex with her . She came onto me .
Second I'd never take advantage of a woman I'm not that type.
3rd I had chances to sleep with woman and I never took it
4th My conscience more important ,
That's why through my years there was so much shit thrown at me through my life and i survived every bit of it and the reason why is that i have a clear conscious .
Usually with people that dont have a clear conscious or usually violent . Dont it say that in the bible
DownTheStreet · 51-55, M
Is she hot and was it fun?
riseofthemachine · 41-45, M
@DownTheStreet she is hot , was it fun ? No a ball of anxiety I was getting everytime and suicidal thoughts , that's what it was doing to my mind
@DownTheStreet Sleazy.
DownTheStreet · 51-55, M
@riseofthemachine well, sounds like a lesson learned. I do not judge or pretend to know everyone’s situations, but here it seems beyond being any benefit. You should chalk it up to experience and move ahead with this knowledge.
riseofthemachine · 41-45, M
@Nobody00 😂😂😂

 
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