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Are you a pro at concealing how you genuinely feel about others?

SW-User
If they're nice i tell them, if they're mean i usually avoid them before i have to get to the point where they need to be told
no. but I am a pro at generally feeling not much of anything.
Mindful · 56-60, F
If someone dislikes others just for being different, yes, I come to dislike them. But since I disprove of disliking others I am in conflict and do everything possible to discover what IS likeable about them. Trying to focus on the positive all the time makes ME dislikable / unlikeable to others. Analyzing what isn’t okay also makes me dislikeable to others. This is the place I come to sort it out. I’m surprised anyone one here —- actually, I don’t think I’m likeable here either. What are we going to do? Live and move on.
Good enough.

But if asked, i would honestly tell them.
SW-User
@CookieCrumbs Exactly. No pretense, no games. 😌
@SW-User
I don’t advertise my feelings. But I’m pretty direct and honest if asked.... whether I like someone or ....NOT.

Like you said, “no games”. Games are a waste of time. And no one really wins in the end.
SW-User
@CookieCrumbs Agreed.
MrsKatherineArch · 41-45, F
I’m very good at being cordial to people I would rather not be around.
Teach me, oh wise one.😂 I'm so inept in this regard I just entirely avoid certain people altogether so as to minimize the likelihood of any interaction ever occurring.@MrsKatherineArch
MrsKatherineArch · 41-45, F
@AnonymouslyYours it’s a matter of learning how to make yourself emotionally unavailable, hence hot caring.
Paintedfox · 36-40, F
Yup. Its driven me to just stay away from people because I hate not being true.
fun4us2b · M
Nope, I'm a prime candidate for "eye rollers anonymous"
Allelse · 36-40, M
Without a problem, I just don't care too because fuck em.
SW-User
No I'm pretty direct and truthful. It's obvious.
SW-User
I generally don't show my feeling to others
😅 No... That be why I have no friends. . .
Mindful · 56-60, F
Too much work.
It does take a lot of energy to live untruthfully.@Mindful
Mindful · 56-60, F
Yep, too much energy!@AnonymouslyYours
ginnyfromtheblock · 26-30, F
extremely good 🤫
I lack this talent
SW-User
Moonpenny · F
I can conceal it but it's usually written all over my face ☺️
SW-User
Not a pro but pretty good.
Pretty much crap at this.🤷‍♀️

 
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