What are the perks of dating old men ?

So true. I've found it hard to relate to younger women at times. Perhaps a generation gap issue. Physical attraction is great but my mind requires stimulation too.

The young ones don't seem to want me

@Everlasting: That is why I like men of my age or a bit older. They have that savoir faire. Oh, I have been with much younger men, but they lack life. And intellectually they are unsatisfying, Everlasting.

@Everlasting: I can talk about anything

@juiceyangel333: There's someone for you out there. He's waiting... Don't lose faith, things happen when you least expect them. An older guy isn't the answer. Find a compatible guy.

@juiceyangel333: I think you are not interested in them. You have to date your age in order to learn what aspects of a future mate you would like.

@Everlasting: I sometimes think an older guy would be able to handle someone like me

@PoetryNEmotion: young guys don't wanna settle . They fear marriage like rabies

@PoetryNEmotion: Perhaps it's who you've run across. I have had a very interesting life that has taken me to all corners of the globe. I'm educated, full of life, and fun to be around. Even my kids find me fascinating :)

@juiceyangel333: Old guys may not want to settle down either. Most are set in their ways and like the bachelor life. Dating and a relationship are one thing... Getting married again... That's a scary proposition.

@Everlasting:
Exactly RIGHT. THEY don't want to settle down!

WHY settle for this:
when I can get the same exact mentality from a 20's year old guy,
with a hot body that works, and works very well :) ?

It's a no brainer here.

@Lunadelobos: Perhaps as a generalization. I stay in shape, can outlast most, and have great regeneration time. Then afterwards we can hold a meaningful and intelligent conversation.

@Everlasting: As I said earlier:

" @juiceyangel333: In general, YES.

But it's not a rule carved in stone dear.

I would in a heart beat date a good man who is my age
who is a [b]GOOD MAN[/b], and we have chemistry and so on and etc, blah blah blah ... :) !
IN a HEARTBEAT. "

@Lunadelobos: I like the way you think. Chemistry and compatibility are so important, no matter what the age. Stimulate my mind and my body is yours. I think it's as important to me as physical attraction.

@Everlasting: The REAL connection is beyond the surface ..And it's very rare to find .

@Everlasting: what's so scary about marriage

@Lunadelobos: don't make me sad

@juiceyangel333:
I have been down that road, literally.
I don't want it.
Now.

@juiceyangel333: What is making you sad in this discussion?

@Lunadelobos: why is finding a deeper connection so hard these days ?

@Lunadelobos: lol the part where you said a deeper connection is rare to find :o

@juiceyangel333:
But THAT is true dear.
LOOK at the divorce statistics.
Second and third marriages.
[center][b]Affairs..Hey I think SW has 100's of groups catered to: I WANT TO HAVE AN AFFAIR.. WHAT BULL SHT.
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People look for better, instead of doing the hard work of looking inside and growing as a person and a couple: THAT IS HARD.
Most do not want to do it, they just rather trash it all to hell. [center][big][b][c=#000000]IDIOTS[/c][/b][/big][/center].

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[b][center][big][c=#002673]It CAN be found.
YOU need to FIND yourself first.
Live your life.
You will attract to you,
who you are.[/c][/big][/center][/b]

@Lunadelobos: I hope my depression doesn't scare him off

@Lunadelobos: Very intuitive. You're absolutely correct.

@juiceyangel333:

The RIGHT person will love YOU.
NO one on this earth is perfect, so just relax about that.

If he is scared off it is bc of his own issues. Understand?
We as humans, tend to AVOID anything unpleasant and anything which is especially triggering for us, is our OWN INTERNAL UNFINISHED BUSINESS.

:) You are fine, depression and all.
If he can't deal with that, he is not WORTH YOUR TIME.

There is a great expression:

[center][b][c=#002673]IF YOU CAN'T HANDLE ME AT MY WORST,
YOU DON'T DESERVE ME AT MY BEST. [/c][/b][/center]