There's one person

I really wish to have a good relationship with, I'm looking forward to see him, but I get totally nervous when he's around, I look regularly on photos of him, I make scenarios of talking/meeting with him when daydreaming, I'm totally panicking when I imagine he'd reject me and I'm jealous on people he likes more.
Is it love, or obsession or what the hell is wrong with me?

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4meAndyou · F

Sounds like obsession. If you are already jealous of people he likes more than you, you should back away. You would probably be scary to him. It sounds like you just want a boyfriend...really badly...but you don't know what love is. You just want to own whomever you select. Real love would cause you to be happy whenever he is happy, with the people who make him happy.

If this is normal for you...to obsess over guys...then find six of them and look at their photos. And try to find reasons why they are nice people. That way you are spreading out the scariness a little bit.

JBird · F

Yeah, it happens to best of us. It's called [b]crush[/b] and they're supposed to [i]crush[/i] you with the anxiety and fool's hope. 😬

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