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Was living in isolation and was finding ways to interact with people. But I think everyone must try participating in forums, it has benefited me a lot
IamCuriousBabe · 51-55, F
@ABCDEF7 It allows for different perspectives.
ABCDEF7 · M
@IamCuriousBabe thanks for BA. I think other people should also support them to initiate talks, for most of them, at a later stage they want to talk to people but they find difficulty in initiating talks.
ABCDEF7 · M
@IamCuriousBabe Yes, forums help us understand different perspectives
Shy people and introverts are not the same thing. Why do you care?
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IamCuriousBabe · 51-55, F
@SW-User Sweet.I am going to miss you.
@IamCuriousBabe lol what are you talking about? I never said I’d block you
IamCuriousBabe · 51-55, F
@BettyBeez Meant for the newbie-averse friend. Wrong tap. Apologies.
How do i put this delicately? None of yall have the skillset to PM ANYBODY.
DDonde · 31-35, M
@DarlingSelah lol it's not like it's that hard.
IamCuriousBabe · 51-55, F
@DarlingSelah Harsh! But I totally feel you.
CountScrofula · 41-45, M
If you're in your late 40s surely you know what shy people did before the internet.
Fantasyproject · 26-30, F
Lmaoooo 😂😂😂love the sarcasm @CountScrofula
SW-User
I’m shy and introverted and I don’t really do PMs. I post publicly all the time though.
SW-User
@SW-User I post more than PM for sure.
No, I’m not shy or introverted on the internet just in person. Lol, I actually prefer talking in the forums rather than in pms. If anything, there’s a lot more pressure in pms to maintain conversation, and keep it entertaining.
SW-User
@Stark Exactly what you just said. People get it all messed up by thinking introverts are shy. I'm far from shy & I hate my inbox.
ExtremeNext · 31-35
I used to talk with my shadow 😳
SW-User
Been there , mine just keeps running away🤷♂️ @ExtremeNext
Quizzical · 46-50, M
Slipped notes under people's doors?
DDonde · 31-35, M
🙄 What makes you think they're sticking to PMs?
IamCuriousBabe · 51-55, F
@DDonde EP and SW have had so many members who have no posts, no connections but have been members a while.
And when they initiate questions they sometimes like to ask personal questions.
Happens to a lot of females here.
And when they initiate questions they sometimes like to ask personal questions.
Happens to a lot of females here.
DDonde · 31-35, M
@IamCuriousBabe Sure. But they're not "introverted and shy" people.
IamCuriousBabe · 51-55, F
@DDonde I wouldn't be jumping to the word "creepy" though.
TheOneyouwerewarnedabout · 41-45, MVIP
i dont do PMs.. im an introvert oO
TheOneyouwerewarnedabout · 41-45, MVIP
@IamCuriousBabe the generic stuff to fill the silent moments.. eg: hows the kids?
me :you dont even know if i have kids, why ask these Questions :)
me :you dont even know if i have kids, why ask these Questions :)
IamCuriousBabe · 51-55, F
@TheOneyouwerewarnedabout The generic stuff for pervs (or the sexually curious): what is your fantasy?
TheOneyouwerewarnedabout · 41-45, MVIP
@IamCuriousBabe winning lotto. im boring 😇
HannahSky · F
Aren't you a dear.
IamCuriousBabe · 51-55, F
@HannahSky Aren't we all?
HannahSky · F
@IamCuriousBabe some really are
IamCuriousBabe · 51-55, F
@HannahSky They do pique the interest.
Who said I'm looking for help?
SubstantialKick · 31-35, M
I rarely get private messages, so I am always hanging out in the main forum when I am logged on to SW. I didn't get into social media until I got a Facebook in 2007.
IamCuriousBabe · 51-55, F
@SubstantialKick 2009 for me. Even then, I tend to shy away from that myself sometimes.
SW-User
I think there’s a delicate balance the same as with online and real life 😊
Before the internet I spent a lot more time outside ,socializing 🥃
Before the internet I spent a lot more time outside ,socializing 🥃
Degbeme · 70-79, M
Tminus6453 · M
I think the PM people think they can get to the sex talk quicker in PM's😣
IamCuriousBabe · 51-55, F
@Tminus6453 Poor choice of site/platform.
SW-User
I'm an introvert but I post here all the time. It's a matter of preference
I rarely talk in pm’s...I’m a shy person who participates on the forums
SW-User
Not sure why it be easier in PM?
SW-User
I had a life 😉
darkknightt · M
Books
GeorgeTBH · 31-35, M
I'm shy and pm a few people but I get ignored all the time on the public forums so it's easier to stick to pm with just a select few people
IamCuriousBabe · 51-55, F
@GeorgeTBH Your posts were ignored? I doubt.
Holdontothefire · 26-30, M
I never did anything without the internet. It's crippling 😬👍️
IamCuriousBabe · 51-55, F
@Holdontothefire You must have been but a particle in the cosmos then. :)
Holdontothefire · 26-30, M
@IamCuriousBabe aren't we all? 🙃
IamCuriousBabe · 51-55, F
@Holdontothefire At least I was already a sentient being when they came up with the idea of the internet.
DiegoWolfe · 36-40
I like pms because they're private and personal, but I am an extrovert and love the forums too
IamCuriousBabe · 51-55, F
@DiegoWolfe I am both an extrovert and introvert. I just prefer to interact publicly as far as SW is concerned.
maybe.
and read books.
and read books.
bijouxbroussard · F
I’m an introvert who only pms friends. Before the internet I actually spoke with people face to face. 🙂
IamCuriousBabe · 51-55, F
@bijouxbroussard It's hard to maintain real-life friendships, harder still in the virtual world.
Chickie · F
I don't participate in forums here as much because so many people here are overzealous "troll" hunters and mean sprited as hell to get me banned off SW. I just keep to myself now unless there's a post that catches my interest which is rare.
IamCuriousBabe · 51-55, F
@Chickie "spirited as hell" --- I know what you mean. Can't help wanting to get a BP check afterwards.