Are black women intimidating/unapproachable ?

@DarkHeaven something like a FOX sitcom!

@itsMEsillyxx Ha ha. Yeah, she’s pretty special. This was our third date, I think... maybe 4th, but the one where I asked her to be my girlfriend. 🖤

https://similarworlds.com/32-Personal-Thoughts-Feelings/3270464-Yesterday-a-beautiful-date-a-beautiful-girl

@itsMEsillyxx She’s totally my angel.

@itsMEsillyxx She is seriously pretty. I’d have to quit choking over my tongue, so that I could talk to her. She’d probably think I was stuck up, and it would be that I was just too shy to talk.

@itsMEsillyxx I’d totally fuck up my opportunity. I’m convinced of it. lol

@PepsiColaP
You *do* mean:

"yeah I think it's a female thing, to be honest, not so much a race thing..."

(setting off the "to be honest" as a comment on your statement), rather than what you actually wrote:

"yeah I think it's a female thing to be honest not so much a race thing..."

which most clearly reads as saying that honesty is a female trait (as opposed to a male one)...?

aww look @ u all mushy, adorable. 12 years younger?? im def curious, how old are u?@DarkHeaven

@itsMEsillyxx I’m 45 and she is 33.

@itsMEsillyxx my guilty pleasure favorite born star is a black girl too. 😬

@itsMEsillyxx Umuahia

@SirBenedictTheSecond def had to google that LOL so ur in Nigeria..with predominantly black women and ur saying [b]none [/b]are approachable? 🤨

@itsMEsillyxx ohhh I thought you meant do white guys approach them. They do not where I live. Maybe occasionally but overwhelmingly they do not

LOL that goes without say @anythingoes477

@Strongtea appreciate the honesty! what do u think would make them more approachable?

I’m not sure, it’s probably all in my head and i’ve had a couple of black girls approach me but usually I just kinda get the feeling they wouldn’t even consider me (this was a couple of years ago when I lived in London) like I said, all in my head?@itsMEsillyxx

@Strongtea yep, all in ur head! Go for it :)

@itsMEsillyxx I don't think a lovely woma--such as you are--should *ever* think that guys of any particular ilk would not be interested.

@SomeMichGuy the charmers are out today i see! 💜 thanks love

@itsMEsillyxx 😊

I'm glad you appreciated the compliment. It was meant to capture my honest reaction. Life is short; making up fake compliments to unknown people on the internet seems a waste of time.

I just think that the face makes the looks, and you have a wonderful face.
[Yes, I am not blind, I DID see your cleavage, but lots of women have that. Your face, though, is yours alone (modulo twinned zygotes), and very, very lovely.]

@itsMEsillyxx All a woman has to prove to me is that she is smart, fun to be with---and from that everything grows. If upbringing causes that attitude of inferiority.....something is seriously wrong with the parents that taught their kids to feel that way.

totally agree. many black families have no father figure so the women are left to fend for themselves..causing the infamous attitude @anythingoes477

@itsMEsillyxx My turn.......now I totally agree...with your assessment.

cool name. lol and yess i dont wear heels becuz they make me too tall. i feel like a man! but thats just me, do ulike being tall?@gobacktoyourroomandstudy

@itsMEsillyxx yes I do! but I do wear heels just because I enjoy them.

i need ur confidence girl! @gobacktoyourroomandstudy

right on bro lol @GwydionFrost

@itsMEsillyxx I've tried to tell that to people all the time-- dude, she's not in your life and if you don't talk to her she's not going to be either-- it's a win-win scenario.

@SW-User yeahh i can totally see that. personally, that is why i have nvr approached a white guy/grl but i also think that way of thinking is kinda restrictive

sorry this happened to u bro, at times we can be as racist as “white ppl” and i don’t understand why if we know how it feels and have tried for yrs to overcome @SW-User

@itsMEsillyxx It is what it is. Some people are just like that.

i have the same problem lol @SW-User

@itsMEsillyxx 🤗

nice butt 😛 and awesome! @FemboyJessi

@itsMEsillyxx thank you 😊

yeah to which question? @Smokey

@itsMEsillyxx I'd approach her

r u saying black is strange? lol @RandomForest

@itsMEsillyxx only black women with mustaches.

Hell no ! I’m good Lol I’ve been shot down many times before . I’ll keep trying No worries @itsMEsillyxx

thats the spirit bro! @DisturbOne

@eMortal why do u feel that way?

@itsMEsillyxx lol afraid that I'm not gonna be the dominant one in the relationship or that I'm gonna be compared to big black guys.

@eMortal this is one of the realest replies but we don't bite! and if it helps, im black but i dont date black men. no issues with them just not my cup of tea.

such as? @OfflineFriend

@itsMEsillyxx how she talks , clothes , etc

why the second no? @Gangstress

@itsMEsillyxx I've got a gf lol

lmaoooo @Gangstress

seriously! @bijouxbroussard

@itsMEsillyxx i have to do gestures with my hands and go "yo yo yo"

@OfflineFriend Uwu

@MartinTheFirst UwU