Because, in that mindset, physically hurting yourself is a way to numb out the emotional pain you might feel.
It’s a horrid way to cope.
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[image] I turned to cutting when I was mired in depression.. I cut myself to feel alive or to wonder if I were.. Sometimes I cut to watch myself bleed.. These scars took 17 stitches and lots of butterfly bandaids to close....
Lighter scars have faded over time.. It wasn't about attention. I had serious issues.. And I was suicidal..
I started cutting at 13 because I was living in such a state of emotional misery, that the physical pain of cutting was a welcome distraction from the way i felt on a constant basis. It was therapeutic. I cut from age 13 and didnt stop til I was 33.
Anyone who says it's "for attention" obviously has no fucking clue what they're talking about.
For me it is a mix of mental illness, self loathing and just the need to feel something. Seriously I have rage issues i can be very angry about something so I take it out on myself to avoid breaking something or hurting anybody.
Self harm can be emotional as well as physical.. Emotional self harm might be sabotaging relationships, sabotaging your job.. Reckless behavior in many forms..
Self sabotage is a form of self harm that can exacerbate emotional pain deliberately...
@InOtterWords I would agree with you, but I know people from group who started cutting because "everyone was doing it." After that it became a "release" of sorts.
Tied to mental issues, but then becomes something physiological. Like most mental problems, they seem to be misunderstood...if they are understood at all.