I want to drastically change my appearance

In the long run
Appearances don't count
If your rude and mean no matter how good looking you might be
They would soon forget about your looks

don't damage your hair too much! make sure to take care of it after you bleach it.

if that isn't a relatable sentiment, i don't know what is

Jusr be yourself and do what makes you happy

Do it! You are still fairly young! :)

Hmmm wanna hug?