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I now truly believe that death comes in threes !

In 2017, I lost 3 beloved family members. In 2018, I lost two good friends to cancer, and today I lost my father-in-law. So, what do you all think?

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Poppapepe · 51-55, MVIP Best Comment

I'm sorry for your lost, usually one hurts bad, I can't fathom what you have gone through, my sincere condolences 😟❤️

Indy74 · 46-50, F

@Poppapepe you're so sweet and kind! Thank you!🤗

Peaches · F

I KNOW!😳I've always believed it and watched it happen a few times. I'm so sorry about your father in law. 😔

Indy74 · 46-50, F

@Peaches thank you so much! It's so good to see you! It's really hard!my husband is not doing well right now. So, we're trying. 🤗🤗

Peaches · F

@Indy74 I WAS just wondering about him too?! 😟 Tell him I'm so sorry and I think he will see him again.💓 It's always good to see you too. I just get lost in the sea of SW Peeps 🐥and never mean to ignore anyone at all.

Indy74 · 46-50, F

@Peaches oh you don't ignore by any means! I appreciate all you've said. I will tell hubby!thank you so much!🙂

LyricalOne · F

I’m so very sorry to hear that. Please give my condolences to hubby.

Indy74 · 46-50, F

@LyricalOne i sure will! He's taking it very hard.

LyricalOne · F

@Indy74 Lots of these for you both. 🤗🤗🤗

Indy74 · 46-50, F

@LyricalOne 🤗🤗🤗

SW-User

I agree. In 2011 I lost 3 family members. I'm sorry for your losses

Indy74 · 46-50, F

@SW-User thank you so much my friend! 😀🤗

SW-User

@Indy74 🤗🤗🤗❤

cherokeepatti · 61-69, F

Happened in my family too when I was a preteen

Indy74 · 46-50, F

@cherokeepatti it's just so strange how that happens.

cherokeepatti · 61-69, F

@Indy74 So stressful & hard to deal with when so many happen close together...they say too much stressors within a one-year period can seriously impact health, both physical & mental.

Diyanne · F

[c=#003BB2]I dunno what it is...but Im so sorry to hear that this happened to you....Hugs to u...[/c]

Itsmrsockmonkey · M

My mom always said that

Indy74 · 46-50, F

@Itsmrsockmonkey I didn't believe it, until it happened. It's just so unreal.

Itsmrsockmonkey · M

@Indy74 I've seen it many times in my life

Tennessee2 · 80-89, F

I'm so sorry for your lost.

Indy74 · 46-50, F

@Tennessee2 thank you so much!

SW-User

I'm sorry for your loss .

Indy74 · 46-50, F

@SW-User thank you so much!

SW-User

😇 You're welcome 😊 @Indy74

Swann

Yeah lost my brother in law in 2010, my father in law in 2014 and my mom 2018. I don’t know if there’s a pattern there but, I’m sorry for you loss anyway.

Wait it’s 4 years in between.. maybe there is a pattern.

Indy74 · 46-50, F

@Swann thank you so much my friend.🤗

Orionstar · 41-45, F

Im sorry boo

gmatthewb · 51-55, M

I think loosing someone is a terrible thing to have to go through. I am sorry to hear about your losses and I hope you are getting the support you need to help you get through all this.

Indy74 · 46-50, F

@gmatthewb yes I am. I'm hanging in there.

Echoing · 61-69, F

Oh my, (hug) wow that is a lot to carry. I am so sorry for your loss and for your husband's. I was wondering about you. I know now... You are weighed down. My prayers to you and husband. Take care!