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What causes someone to act needy?

Miram · 31-35, F
For me my neediness comes from abandonment issues.
It could be anything.
MarkPaul · 26-30, M
@Miram But, how does being needy solve that feeling of being abandoned or the fear of it... or anything else?
Miram · 31-35, F
@MarkPaul It doesn't. We don't feel neediness because it's a solution. It's a consequence. It's not a problem too unless you're acting too much on it and it affects other people.
I guess to work on it when it's a problem, you'll have to address the reason and learn to regulate it. You have to take responsibility and be ready to change.
dreamsicle · 46-50, F
They need something?
MarkPaul · 26-30, M
@dreamsicle The obvious answer usually spells ______. [Don't say it]
dreamsicle · 46-50, F
@MarkPaul I’m thinking it real hard though!
MarkPaul · 26-30, M
@dreamsicle 😱 Oh no!
SpaceCreature · 26-30, F
Lack of attention.
MarkPaul · 26-30, M
@SpaceCreature You mean, in general?
Caprice · 41-45, F
MarkPaul · 26-30, M
@Caprice So, looking for someone else to fulfill something missing?
Caprice · 41-45, F
@MarkPaul exactly
SW-User
Lack of love
MarkPaul · 26-30, M
@SW-User How does being needy solve that?
SW-User
@MarkPaul trying to get the person you want, show you love. Sending signals.
SW-User
MarkPaul · 26-30, M
@SW-User From what?
SW-User
Not feeling loved or wanted
MethDozer · M
Arrested development
MarkPaul · 26-30, M
@MethDozer Hmmmmm. 🤔

 
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