I Have Family Members That Get On My Nerves

Most of my family are shitty people! My mom left when I was 10, my dad after my mom left just became an absolute nightmare he would bring home different women every other night. So growing up it was super unstable and I didn’t know who I’d be coming home to half the time.

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bigjohndl · 70-79, M

Kids should always be the priority. Sorry you had to go through that. When people split up, they should not bring drama home. They should focus solely on their kids until the kids reaches 18. People will slam me for saying that, but anytime a parent brings in girlfriends or boyfriends, they are relegating their kids to a lesser role.

SW-User

@bigjohndl yeah I agree! But it’s okay it wasn’t too bad with my brothers and I’m away from it now living my own life! :)

minarth008 · 61-69, M

Wow, that must have been hard. Sorry to see you were put through that. My parents divorced when I was 8, but I just stayed between the two of them and she died when I was 15. Nothing like what you went through though.

SW-User

My mom was the same :( im sorry for you

StevetheSleeve · 31-35, M

After your mother left, your dad was probably over-compensating for feelings of undesirability. But still, the kids should have been his priority.

SW-User

@StevetheSleeve yeah we should have been the main concern but we definitely weren’t. But I guess it taught my brothers and I about responsibility and we took care of each other. Now that I’m away from my dad it’s a lot better

vetguy1991 · 51-55, M

Doesn't sound good

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