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My friend has relapsed...

I’ve posted about her before, she is technically senior to me at our workplace. For the past six months she has managed to keep her performance up, but the last few months things have been falling apart. I think a few of us have covered for her including myself...
She went on a bender yesterday and missed her family Christmas. She video called me tonight sobbing and saying she knew I had to report her. The lines are getting murky now and I don’t know how much longer I can have her back. But we are friends first. I just hope she goes through with her rehab plans. I guess I will have to re-evaluate on the 4th of Jan. There isn’t really any true friendship left when someone goes down the heroin rabbit hole
SW-User
It is unfair that this is a burden you need to carry.
@SW-User Yeah I’d honestly rather not know. It’s putting me in a difficult position and she knows that
Miram · 31-35, F
It is pretty tricky situation. I have been friends with people battling addictions and they do require support but you can't do so alone. You have to get others involved.

It is really sad. They also have to be ready to change.
@Miram Yep exactly its kind of just watching from the sidelines to see which direction they choose to take.
CheshireCatalyst · 36-40, M
Sometimes it's impossible to know the best way to help, because you can't see the outcome. I hope she can accept the help she needs.
@CheshireCatalyst Yes she knows the road she needs to take she contacted the right places so it’s her journey from here
I hope she makes better choices so your friendship can flourish
whowasthatmaskedman · 70-79, M
There is information out there specifically for family and friends of addicts as support for the family, not the addict. Check with a few rehab sites and find some. You are in need of help and hopefully more ready for it than she is right now.
Good Luck.. You will need it.😷
Classified · M
Isn't it better if she gets help at an institution? The longer she keeps using, the harder it may become to quit again 😥
Classified · M
@Notladylike You told her to go there? 😥
@Classified No she researched her options herself. You can’t really tell someone what to do in that situation.
Classified · M
@Notladylike At least she's doing something. Hopefully she goes there
Sorta like Biden's crack head son?
Miram · 31-35, F
@Notladylike Exactly. I am not from the US either. So effing weird.
@Miram I'm spreading the word. Free speech exists 🇺🇸👍
Mikemcneil · 61-69, M
@Stargazer89 you're jumping on other people and their posts to spout crap.
I wish her well.
@quitwhendone Me too
JohnOinger · 41-45, M
I wish her luck
This is why I think working is wrong.
@Existentior I’m sure that makes sense in your head, out loud not so much
@Notladylike [youtube=https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Zqi9vCZF6CY] Think again.

 
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