Are you friends with your colleagues?
I have a good relationship with my team but within the boundaries at work. I only have 3 friends which I met from my 1st job. I was on a hard situation then one of them helped me out of it and we've been very good friends since. I God parented her two kids. The other two are just simply sincere. I don't need gifts or any flattery. One friend can be identified if their there to helped you when your in deep trouble..I just can't make one at my workplace now, my level of trust has been different and restricting. It's rare to find a good-hearted person :)