Is it wrong

@BlueVeins We do.

@Jenni855 Well, then make sure she's aware of that, and that the situation isn't likely to change.

@BlueVeins Ok we should do this really although that may mean she will leave

@Jenni855 Not necessarily - perhaps she feels you don't really value her time/services anyway, so is prioritising elsewhere? We all need to feel appreciated.

@BalmyNites Maybe. It's just frustrating. When we cancel it's for good reason. I get she needs to be paid but does feel she is lying and making up excuses at the moment

@Jenni855 Perhaps you cannot see the logic because you are too close to the situation, whereas to me, it is blatantly obvious there are double standards here & if, as you say, you "do need her there twice a week to help out" then best you start treating her with respect.

@4meAndyou She is an adult. We do really value her, its just unavoidable at times.