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could working second shift be the reason for not being able to find friends?

could working second shift be the reason for not being able to have friends? I work second shift from 4 pm to 12. so on weekdays and Saturdays i work Tuesday through Saturday, im busy in the evening. I am not sure if its really effecting me that much. I understand that its harder to go to social events because they are all held in the evenings but people dont do anything on weekdays anyway and I still have Sundays. if this is the problem and lets say I need the second shift differential to survive so i cant switch shifts how do I meet new people and enough to become friends with them? after one day of talking to people i have never been able to form a friendship.
why arnt dating sites working for U
@Girlyfriendcollecting I know but you know that you can find and narrow your search and spend some time to get to know someone even before any meetings. I did -it sucked but I met some nice ppl along the way but I am a guy and trust me its way diff.
@MarmeeMarch yea i did narrow my search and it said no results found.
@Girlyfriendcollecting maybe try different sites ? 🤷‍♂️
Montanaman · M
Unless you connect with fellow second shifters 👍🤗
@Montanaman yea well i stay at work after my shift and talk to the night shifters,i dont work with any one, first shifters leave within the first hour of my shift the rest of the people im around i dont work with i cant have a good long conversation at work i can only small talk. and i have hasnt led me anywhere.
uncalled4 · 56-60, M
Second shift is tough. I did it for years. You don't see people as much
@uncalled4 yea but I like that i dont need an alarm to wake up there is always parking spots no traffic and I get a shift differential. Im too used to that, its tough for me to get used to first shift.

 
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