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Is it okay to beg for his attention?

He wants me to be content with the amount of attention he gives me but everything in me wants to beg and plead for more attention from him
Absolutely not... men give us what they can ... begging for more makes them tired of you...
chrisCA · M
@Soossie Begging shows weakness.
Lilymoon · F
Don't chase... 🤷🏼‍♀️
MartinTheFirst · 22-25, M
@Lilymoon Well what if you wanted to either way? 🤔
Chasingthesun · 46-50, F
@MartinTheFirst I'm not starving for attention he is very attentive... I just cant seem to get enough of him.. lol blushing
Lilymoon · F
@MartinTheFirst yeah that's a hard call sometimes haha
Northwest · M
Why would you want what's not offered? If you're unhappy now, you're going to be just as unhappy in the future.
Northwest · M
@Chasingthesun I don't think people should hold back their excitement, just because of some relationship politics, but it's really important to understand the other person's "temperament" and adjust expectations properly.
Chasingthesun · 46-50, F
@Northwest hes the sweetest kindest man I've ever met but he is reserved and wants me to be content...oh lol
Northwest · M
@Chasingthesun People have different temperaments. One person could be on cloud nine, but the only thing you can get out of them is "yes, this is OK". Most of it is family of origin.

You're the only person who can assess whether a specific temperament or response is important to you. There are two people in the relationship.
MarkPaul · 26-30, M
Just call him, "Your Excellency" and start each sentence with "Thank you for your leadership" and you will be fine. Keep us posted.
SW-User
Never stoop that low. He'll perceive it as clinginess, and it'll push him away.
JoyfulSilence · 46-50, M
Do not beg.

Just shower him with love.
TexChik · F
nope, Just cut back a little and take back control. If he starts to feel that he isnt in demand, he will change his tune
MartinTheFirst · 22-25, M
Plead while you want to, trust me it disappears quickly, the honeymoon stage they call it.
Chasingthesun · 46-50, F
@MartinTheFirst yes it's all rose colored glasses and puppy love to 🥰😍😘
MartinTheFirst · 22-25, M
@Chasingthesun then fill your time up with more

In the end, appreciate what you got to have.
newgirl · 56-60, F
I would keep that to yourself. Let him come to you.
HannahSky · F
Begging is for beggars, are you?

 
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