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Long distance relationship survival kit !!! [I Need Advice]

You can’t ready their body language and you don’t hear what they say
These days it’s mostly messages and texting .
How can you survive this?

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NaughtyPickle · M

Sensory deprivation

Yaz69 · 36-40, M

Video calls

Soossie

Niloo Jaan!!

I wouldnt survive if he did not make me trust him... I have always had trust issue

He shared his photo, full name, phone number, and address to gain my trust...

I talked to members of his beautiful family...

He was ready to do anything for me to trust him and him being geniun

I trust him fully... He has never lied to me about anything.. He knows he doesn't have to....

In my homble opinion, if anyone refuses to share information to gain the trust of their virtual partner then they are fake, fake, fake...

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Niloo · 46-50, F

@Soossie
Thank you 😊
You are too kind azizam.🤗

SW-User

@Soossie Let's have Iranian Tea party Oneday 😌💗 @Niloo

Soossie

@SW-User

Absolitely.... that looks soooo delicious... ❤❤❤🌹

TexChik · F

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Niloo · 46-50, F

@TexChik
That’s why I keep mine in my purse 🤣

TexChik · F

@Niloo Now why didnt I think of that?

Niloo · 46-50, F

@TexChik
😁

Synyster · 51-55, M

Don't bother, it never works, it's just an online fantasy that goes nowhere.

Niloo · 46-50, F

@Synyster
That’s what I mostly hear :(

Synyster · 51-55, M

@Niloo Sorry 🤗

SW-User

Trust and communication are very important.

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Niloo · 46-50, F

@SW-User
Thank you !
I know I like being with him even if it is long distance .... so I’m going to keep him 😉
He is worth it ❤️

SW-User

@Niloo They really are, especially when you click on the most basic friendship level.

Niloo · 46-50, F

@SW-User
True .

MoonlightLullaby · 41-45, F

[quote]You can’t ready their body language and you don’t hear what they say [/quote]

This needs to be established first, and the fact that communication is key. Say what you expect. One must read in between lots of lines and feel what is unspoken. If it's the right person, you'll truly click. Never bring sexual intimacy into something quickly, it'll always fail. Guess that's why I'm the girl who said to hell with SW crushes until now...
Look for a [b]gentleman[/b], or stumble upon the one who wants to know your every detail and demon. In this case,I've learned communication outside of here and the dramatic static is best.

I'm so excited for you. Many have found partners here. 💕
Let life surprise you... We're definitely not on the market, but that special person sent this, and the message rings so true...

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Niloo · 46-50, F

@MoonlightLullaby
Thank you luv❤️🤗

MoonlightLullaby · 41-45, F

@Niloo Absolutely, sweetpea. One never knows the cards unless they're gambled.😉

SW-User

I’ve been in several. It gives you a reason to love harder and if you finally do meet then you both have a lot of stories to share with each other and you both will have the best day ever until you meet again.

LeoWulf · 36-40, M

Long distance relationships are temporary by nature.

Niloo · 46-50, F

@LeoWulf
Unfortunately I hear that a lot :(

SW-User

@Niloo That's why it's important to just focus on what you two have. Everyone is different.
People have told me that it's not real, it's a fantasy, etc., however they aren't the ones in your relationship.

HotMessExpress102 · 41-45, F

Patience and a whole lot of understanding 🤗

Niloo · 46-50, F

@HotMessExpress102
Not the easiest things to do 🤗

SW-User

You just know. You miss them, but just know it's ok

ButterRobot · 51-55, M

Don’t try.

Niloo · 46-50, F

@ButterRobot
Too late 🤭

ButterRobot · 51-55, M

@Niloo I’m sorry

Myself11 · 61-69, M

It’s very hard me and my gf is going through this now it’s hard but we feel each other in our harts we are making the best of it

Niloo · 46-50, F

@Myself11
Hang in there 🤗

Myself11 · 61-69, M

@Niloo thank you very much

GypsyMiss · 41-45, F

You can't! There needs to be some 'real life' factored in. FaceTime/Skype etc is the best place to start.

Eddiesolds · 61-69, M

It was very hard.very lonely at times also

Niloo · 46-50, F

@Eddiesolds
Sorry to hear you experiences that🤗

Eddiesolds · 61-69, M

@Niloo Its all good.Thankyou Niloo

Nunlover

High quality slutty nudes is a must, video too. Yw

Niloo · 46-50, F

@Nunlover
Of course 🤭
T y

polyandrym66 · 70-79, M

Video chats.. They can't hide or lie or play games. IT IS WHAT IT IS..

JesseInTX · 51-55, M

Lovense.com

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JesseInTX · 51-55, M

@Niloo live savers. Especially since covid made travel almost impossible 😉

Niloo · 46-50, F

@JesseInTX
Not sure I want to be vibrating in a meeting or when I’m working 😁

JesseInTX · 51-55, M

@Niloo I’ve hit her a few times in conference calls. Once when she was at lunch with friends. But the best is when we’re in the phone and enjoying each other.