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I Should Maybe Keep Some Things To Myself

I have been in a situation in my life where I pretended to be someone else and it got out of hand big time. It brought me so much pain but most of all it caused others pain. Which has damaged me for life, being here and be able to share my story I want to first of all be clear that I have learned from my mistake and that would not ever advice anyone to go trhough this path.

Which brings me to my actual message. Having a nickname to remain anonymous is oke but be yourself even if someone does not know your actual name. Sure, it is fun at first to act like someone you are not and it feels liberating but there is a differance between letting out who you really are and be someone you are not. Because at some point feelings will be hurt when the truth comes out, maybe intentional or maybe not. But would you intentionally miss out on a great friendship? Because internet friendships are possible but if that friendship is ba<x>sed on a lie then the truth will come out when things get serieus.

I know, I am in a position where it is easy to talk, you might think. But believe me I have been through this. No matter what my intentions was, I ruined a friendship which was dear to me. It hurts still and moving on with a decade on memories is not going to make it easier. And I know, I am here under a nickname telling you this but still, the things I write on here are my true feelings and you may have all sorts of thoughts or questions about them but I am fine with it. I know myself and I am comfortable with it. Be your beautifull self and good people will gravitate towards it.

 
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