I Wonder What People Really See

See in how? About myself? I grew up holding a strong inferiority complex. I saw myself as not good enough, not pretty enough. I wanted to feel mature yet lacked all self confidences. Teased even in elementary school by the girls who watched as I would stare at a new boy joining in the classroom.

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Writer · 100+, F

I just read that artists see the world differently. So now I wonder what everyone else sees.

Carla1951 · 70-79, F

@Kunstner: its not what an artist sees. It's how he views it. Each person visualizes a scene differently.

Writer · 100+, F

@Carla1951: She . According to them it is not a choice. Being creative myself, that would be my normal but I now understand why people seem to wonder about my work sometimes. I am very curious to know what they see, passively.

Carla1951 · 70-79, F

I do have a question to ask you 'Gentlemen'
Many times I will pass by the bedroom to see my BF masturbating. Now, for me, Masturbating is a PRIVATE thing. Is this the same for a man? My guess is that he feels shame that he cannot perform. But I know my spots. AND it's difficult; being I am a SCREAMER!
Would you feel upset that your partner interrupted your self pleasure to give oral?

Pherick · 41-45, M

@Carla1951: [quote]Would you feel upset that your partner interrupted your self pleasure to give oral?[/quote]

Not even a tiny bit upset.

bowman81 · M

He is your partner...talk to him about it. I would welcome you. Partners should enjoy pleasing each other in any way they can. Perhaps there is a reason you are "seeing him many times"...he may hope you will join in. Most guys are a little more discrete than that.

OzDiver · 61-69, M

And now? What do you see in yourself now?

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OzDiver · 61-69, M

@Carla1951: Oh, that's really unfortunate. I know what you mean about missing being touched. Even with his ED surely there are things you can do together?

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Carla1951 · 70-79, F

@Pherick: He has Heart Issues and cannot take the meds for E.D. as they may bring on another attack. He was warned by his doctor.

Pherick · 41-45, M

I think you just have to eventually realize that it doesn't matter what EVERYONE sees, it matters what the people you care about see.

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