I Wonder What People Really See

This old man I've known for a while told me that I was pretty, have a nice personality, and a "great ass." But what I found interesting was that of the three things he listed, I was most flattered about him thinking I had a nice personality. Maybe it was because I don't really believe the other two. Or maybe I really do value recognition of my personality more than my looks? *shrugs* Just thought it was interesting.

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AnimatronicLick · 46-50, M

Haha. Classic. He covered all three areas not knowing which you'd be pondering later online.

LadyAlera · 31-35, F

@AnimatronicLick haha it was his argument to convince me I was ready to look for a husband lol. I was like, "Nooooo" :P

AnimatronicLick · 46-50, M

@LadyAlera It's nice to have people in our lives who know us well enough to give us a nudge when we are hesitating. I am not endorsing his proposal that you go find a man, I'm just saying.

LadyAlera · 31-35, F

@AnimatronicLick I understand :) And I agree.

SlaveEt · 36-40, F

I understand. Many people get complimented on their looks or the work they do but not many think to compliment something so personal and basic to who we are like our personality.

LadyAlera · 31-35, F

@SlaveEt So true! It's such a great compliment when someone gives positive feedback on your personality :)

Goralski · 51-55, M

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mathsman · 70-79, M

Ah yes
I think we all want to be liked, before all else

HoraceGreenley · 56-60, M

Could have been worse

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