Taking it Slow

I discovered this site by a fluke and I find so much about it interesting... But I'm taking it slow as far as revealing much about myself personally. That's probably not really fair to those who have such courage to say what they really feel. I hope I can get there too.
My question is have you revealed things here you haven't told people elsewhere and what has been the result? Has anyone had a negative experience from sharing here? Or a very positive one?

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SumKindaMunster · 51-55, M

I'm only open with people who I have developed a strong and long term relationship here.

There are a LOT of catfish, trolls and scammers here, so your hesitation is warranted.

Just relax, be yourself, and until you feel comfortable, don't share any personally identifying information here. And even then, be very cautious. Better to err on the side of not providing enough info than too much.

Welcome!

EasyFriend

@SumKindaMunster Thank you!

DragonFruit · 61-69, M

Offline, I'm closeted and most people think that I'm straight (I'm bisexual, and have made no secret of that here).
I'm an alcoholic, but highly functional and most people who know me offline aren't aware.
I'm a nudist and most people offline aren't aware.
People on SW have been largely supportive (with a few exceptions). I see SW as essentially a support site, and my experience here has been mostly positive.

EasyFriend

@DragonFruit Thanks for your open honesty!! Gives me real hope

Miram · 31-35, F

Some people will try to use personal things you revealed against you when you disagree with them.

But you will also gain genuine friendships long term. Being yourself weed out the bad.

SueBee · 70-79, F

Originally I revealed quite a lot here but nothing hubby didn't already know because he's also a member. However, I started to attract the attention of a stalker who I couldn't get rid of, so in the end I closed the account and restarted under a new name - all my original sexperiences I'd shared were lost and I've never put them back on.

SW-User

I don't think I have ever shared anything online that I have not also shared with friends or family members offline.

As far as 'courage' and sharing personal info about yourself goes, you have a right to take your time and participate where and when you are ready. I, for one, am not impressed by TMI and would not call it courage.