How do I find the answer?

This probably doesn't make sense to people with a healthier self-esteem, but how do I get the answers for the question, "What do I like about myself?" I am having unexpected difficulty with this and I'd like the insight of someone that went through this.

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wanderlinglilacs22 · 26-30, F

Become the person you want to be. Everyone has something to offer in this world. Sadly, many of us are our own harshest critics. Never change to cater to someone else. Accept your flaws, as well as, your strengths. Only then will you find inner peace. Surround yourself with positive thoughts...but, more importantly, stop focusing on yourself...and, instead, maybe direct your attention elsewhere, or caring for another human being! You'd be surprised by how lighter you feel, how much clarity you've gained if you've met a person less fortunate than you. I don't discount your feelings; I speak from experience when I say it's still a struggle for me...a work in progress actually. Best wishes to you! I hope, someday, you will truly love yourself, and see that you are worthy of it just as much as anyone else! Never forget that, and God love you!! :)