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Is it worth breaking up over?

My boyfriend recently ( the 11th of February kind of recently) texted his ex that she's "the one that got away" 😔 Not sure how to feel about this. its the first time he's ever done something like this but is it enough to end the relationship? I just feel disrespected by the entire situation.
Thoughts?
N.B. He has been my boyfriend for 4 months now not since the 11th of February.
MushroomFaerie Best Comment
Nobody can make that call for you but it's pretty bad...that shouldnt happen, he HAS disrespected you and if hes not 100% for you, which hes not then hes not worth it, you can do better and shouldnt settle for less.
Chances are if you stay it will all blow up in your face in a few months, will come right back and bite you. Sorry.

yeronlyman · 51-55, M
Train wreck coming
Get out quick
morrgin · F
Has he been your boyfriend since the 11th or has he texted his ex since the 11th? Either way, what he is doing is called emotional cheating. Move on. Better ones are out there.
TranscendentGemini · 22-25, F
@morrgin Texting the ex since the 11th. We've been together for 4 months.
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TranscendentGemini · 22-25, F
@RamessesII I thought so too to be honest.
LikeTheSun · 22-25, F
It would be end game for me babes...
Everyone's different though. All in all make sure you are being respected. You set the example for how people are to treat you. Know your worth

You have your whole life ahead of you. Learning when to walk away is imperative.
SW-User
You can play with him though 😂
Probably not. You've been official for less than a week. Sit down and talk to him about it. Find out the context. If your gut tells you to go, than go.
TranscendentGemini · 22-25, F
@dragonfly46 We've been together for 4 months.
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JBird · F
It's early for a breakup or even for a relationship to be committed if you ask me. Maybe you two can take a break and think about your relationship.
gurlwatcher22 · 61-69, M
She'll always have a place in his heart,but you should (still) be his number one.If not,show him the door.
Remember,you're young.Don't just "settle" for any guy.
Theandyb · 36-40, M
Ask him about it. Is he still got feelings for his ex . Think about his answer and decide if you would rather ditch him.
Also depends on how you found out about the text. Did he tell you he text them or did you find out yourself?
TranscendentGemini · 22-25, F
@DaveyWavey01 He left his phone with me and she called him.
When I answered she quickly hung up then I found the messages.
DiegoWolfe · 36-40
thats up to you, can you forgive him?
TranscendentGemini · 22-25, F
@DiegoWolfe I want to but a large drawback is that I feel i"ll be giving him the power to do it again because I'm forgiving.
Nanori · F
Not breakup but put your foot down

 
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