To do swinging or not

@1234cardiff we started when we were practically still dating. We would always ask each other "would you have sex with him/her given the chance?"

After a while my wife decided that she likes flirting and misses it. I told her "go ahead"

After another long while we decided to look into this further. We were having fun with the "idea" of flirting, but never really doing anything.

We talked and asked each other how seriously we wanted to take this flirting thing and if flirting went well, then how would we handle going further?

We started to study what it's called when each member of a couple are ok with the other flirting and even having sex with other people, and that's how we discovered swinging.

That whole process took about 4 years. And it would be another 2 years after that before we actually had sex with anyone but each other.

Patience and communication are the name of the game. We've had more orgies than most people I've ever heard of. But they're months apart and between them can be very quiet.

We spend most of our time building relationships and making new friends. Maybe one out of every ten new, active, full swap swinger friends we make will we end up having sex with. We'd have sex with more of them but it just takes time and since everyone is grown up with lives and responsibilities, it really takes time to set something up.

What we are doing now is working very hard to build the lifestyle community to get people all on the same page so they can trust each other and feel better about each other (all in the service of having more sex in the future 😜).

I'm doing that by building large scale events for teaching the lifestyle to curious and experienced people. I figure if we can spread our knowledge around the entire lifestyle and get everyone to be more secure, and more comfortable, then we can avoid some of the pitfalls we've seen over the years and have better success... Well, getting people into our bed. Ha ha ha.

Also if we're facing troubles then chances are that everyone in the lifestyle are facing the same issues and we thought it would be cool to help *everyone* feel better about getting laid.

Our event is called Sway! It is actually August 3rd,2019 in Houston and this is the first annual event. We will be hosting these yearly and with any luck, we will be in your neck of the woods before too long, so you may get to meet us in person!

Thanks for reading! I hope this answers your questions 😉

Wow may be sound complicated

@TonyNorwenglish fun but funny thing to teach swing not just do it @TonyNorwenglish