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What should I say to her or how to approach the conversation 馃槦

So few weeks ago I met a girl at the festival I went to randomly and we hit it off besides our very similar personalities I think she is a real darling. Anyway that day I didn't think much of it because we have been dancing and it was a long day but She had a really strong body odour and not in a nice way. Very strong!!! I have been catching up with her regularly doing girly stuff and actually that's how she always smells. She stayed at my place few times and after shower I will offer her my deodorant and she will use it without saying no or hesitation. So I bought her one without saying anything as a present but don't know if she uses it or not .Last week we met up with my other friends and I saw their reaction to the Smell, although none said anything in her presence later on my other friend mentioned it to me and asked me to tell her to use deodorant or something. I know this girl showers and she wears perfume but still the odour is very strong. So strong that everyone notice. I hate the reaction I see sometimes from strangers when we are out. Somehow though she is oblivious to it. Today I am having lunch with her and I really want to say something but in a nice way and not just tell her but make sure she does something about it
Have you ever been in this situation? If so how did you handle it and did it work out?
Can it be a medical issue and she hasn't told me or don't know about? Should I just keep quiet ? Or what should I say? I really don't think she knows otherwise she would do something about it?
She looks immaculate always and well groomed is just the smell...Pffffff
Any advice would be very much appreciated 鈽猴笍
I really want to be her friend
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jomsim26-30, M
I work with a couple of people who don't wear deodorant. I find it very off-putting but they're both adults and I think they must know what they are doing by now so I just say nothing.

We all have things that are going to be off-putting to others. If other people don't like it, it's their choice to avoid us.
AwfullybraveF
@jomsim I want to be her friend馃様 but the smell is really strong , I am not talking the smell we can all get sometimes plus it pisses me off to see how others react to it 馃槥
jomsim26-30, M
@Awfullybrave I guess one way to be neutral about it would be to ask her how she feels about other people reacting to her naturalness. That kind of frames it positively, and also keeps any judgement from you out of it.
AwfullybraveF
@jomsim Naturalness馃榿 yeah I love that thank you.this is why I made the post. I didn't even know that word 鈽猴笍