You ever go to ask for advice here, but then decide against it?

@SweetMae I've learned to be very careful in my wording when talking about certain topics.

@FaeLuna There are some wonderful, genuine people here! But, a few can't be trusted.

@Mbingh01 thats what i thought too. If i see a genuine question i try and give an honest answer

@Mbingh01 I've gotten some really good advice here before. But I've also gotten a lot of weird responses, and strange follow-up messages too, so I tend to think about the possible trade-offs of asking here before I do.

Yes me too and let the chips fall where they may. I think there are a lot of hurting people on here. The women seem more compassionate. Maybe we should get together and form our women only site!😋

@Unlearn Well, yeah, I wouldn't ask for major life advice. That's what friends and family are for. But smaller stuff I've asked about here.

@CoffeeFirst I hate it when I see a genuine plea for help, and some of the responses are just unrelated nonsense or otherwise straight-up harmful. I try to be as helpful as possible when I see that.

@FaeLuna Especially when the issue is a serious mental health issue or disease! Good for you for trying to help. I do, too.

@Wraithorn I often wonder how different the site would be for me if I changed the little F to an M. Like, would I get the same types of responses? Would people just ignore me? It's an interesting thought experiment, but I'm not sure I'd be able to pull it off for real.

@FaeLuna I know that many people have done exactly that. They usually change back eventually though. I think it must be difficult to maintain a constant false act though if you're wanting to be sincere.

@Wraithorn I'd just be paranoid and afraid of saying something that outs me as a deceiver. I don't think I could keep it up for long before the paranoia makes it not fun anymore.

@FaeLuna tl;dr - cook the roast at 1 hour a pound at 200 F and then sear afterwards.

@CountScrofula Well, I know what [i]I'm[/i] doing for dinner tonight!

@FaeLuna Do eet. It's unbelievably easy! Make some yorkshire puddings to go with and live like a goddess.

@FaeLuna Yes.😕

@anathemaJack Nothing wrong with that. Sometimes it can be a fun type of insanity!

@FaeLuna true