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I want to reinvent myself. Any Suggestions?

After a long think I want to reinvent myself and my image, basically my entire life.

Not just in here but in life in general.
But I have no idea how and I'm kinda scared..
summergirl4fun · 31-35, F
Just try to stay true to yourself and not focus too much on what others think.. I’m not sure what you mean exactly by regrets but generally less is more and always leave something to the imagination.. and be strong enough to handle the haters too.. they go hand in hand with popularity.. best of luck to you! 💗
SW-User
Start with one thing that will have the greatest impact and focus on that until it gets to the point that you like. Then add another.

If you do too much at once, you can spread yourself too thin and it will all fall apart.
EnjoyTheFeast · 22-25, F
In what way?
SW-User
Haha sorry, still nervous over this.

Basically if I was to say the main thing it would be how I respond and act. I feel like I need to get likes and attention to feel relevant, I know its stupid to think like that but its how I've been for a couple of years, and honestly its made me do things I regret, some worse than others. So yeah.. Kinda sad I know but welcome to my life
EnjoyTheFeast · 22-25, F
@SW-User No, I totally get it. If you feel uncomfortable you can PM me and I'll try to help you in there
SW-User
@EnjoyTheFeast I'd like that :)
step one. leave the old one behind. move to a new place, tell old freinds you are going on a long trip, and need time to be alone.

then when in a NEW place. start changing,, make NO new friends yet. new clothes are a great start. pic a new name too! and stop talking about your life before, talk about the things you are interested in.

without family and pals around, you can be your(new)self without explanation
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denise · 22-25, F
me too i tried and tried
MinMan80 · 41-45, M
I did this last year I joined a group of people that are very charitable, I help out when I can doing stuff almost every week this has helped me feel so much better about myself. It's great to help out others I even find myself helping outside of the group too.
JustADude · 61-69, M
Make it someone you like.
Hmmm..you might need to do some soul searching to figure that out. You could be a comedian and just look at everything through the lens of comedy..or you could be a nihilist! That's pretty cool too.
SW-User
Just take a step back from people you know,think how they act. Do you want to be liked so much,you'd be like them..Answer should be no!..
Explore your likes,some dislikes too. Time to discover who you are
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xRedx · M
Change comes from within. Decide what you'd like to change first, then take concrete steps towards change.
Captainawesome · 31-35, M
You are beautiful and have value how you truly are doing be someone else who else will be you?
SW-User
Optogenetics is working on that. Promising results with mice so far 👍️
🍿 I would like to know how to start as well.
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bsawyer111 · 56-60, M
I get that way sometimes too.

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SW-User
No idea x.x Sorry.
bluemachine · 26-30, M
cut your hair
basilfawlty89 · 31-35, M
What kinda work are you in?

 
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