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I’m really confused please help

So Iv been with my gf for basically almost 5 years we have broken up before where she left me then came back we’ll recently I hadn’t seen her since 2016 October because I didn’t have a car and she mostly just wanted to see me in a car as she said someone might see us on foot as our families already had issues...but I was struggling to get a car I just passed recently this year in January and I’m only 21 I was struggling with money so I said to her il see you on foot till I get a car..but she’s like now il wait till you get a car..

Slowly I could tell she was losing interest from her lack of communication so I asked her if she’s losing interest or likes someone else but she’s like no I love you everything is still the same etc fast forward a month later she breaks up saying she wants to be single and doesn’t want a relationship later on she tells me she’s fallen for someone else and doesn’t have feelings for me.... my point is am I the one to blame because I asked her numerous times to see me on foot also I asked her if she likes someone else why won’t she more honest with me
sarahcupcake · 36-40, F
You're asking about blame but it's pointless to try and pin blame on one person or the other. The fact is... it didn't work out and everyone has to move on and look to the future.
If she wants a car, tell her to go get off her fat arse and buy one herself! Well shot of that one mate
This isn't your fault. It's a product of circumstance. You didn't see each other and she ended up growing apart, whether she denies it or not.

I would advise moving on and talking to her less. What's happened has happened and you need to focus on yourself, meeting new people and gaining new experiences. You are so young, and I know this was a bad experience but there is a world of other experiences waiting for you
HeavenBesideYou · 56-60, F
She was stringing you along, and no, it’s not your fault.
Fungirlmmm · 51-55, F
I agree with HBY. I am sorry but you need to move on
It just wasn't the best set up for you. If her love for you didn't last through that, there was no way it was going to work out overall. Some of it might be that she wanted to break up and just couldn't bring herself to do it outright in one swoop. It might be that the issues between your families made her rethink being with you.
SW-User
Just move on is my advice the blame game keeps you bitter don't give into it.
You are better off accepting that she wasn't honest and it's better not to be with a dishonest person.
SW-User
She is, no, she sounds materialistic
SW-User
Move on. She sounds pretty shallow
She never wanted to go out with you so she just gave you excuses. Sorry
Killerilluminati · 26-30, M
She was already with me she had been out with me before I dunno why she must have made excuses now @SStarfish
@Killerilluminati i know the type.. She's not a nice girl.. Just forget about it ..

 
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