Need good ideas for responding to my husband cheating

I know it happens all the time. And now it has happened to me. I want my response to be smart and I want my response to put me in a good position for Karma to take it's course. Also to not negatively affect my potential divorce settlement...

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Keepitsimple · 51-55, F

I would really move on. At least you don’t have to live a fraud life anymore. As for the settlement It’s really a numbers game. Whether or not he agrees is a whole other thing. Usually if it gets to the judge unsettled they are pissed and the one holding it up gets hammered. That happened with my sister and her ex.

eatpraylove · 56-60, F

@Keepitsimple move on to what?

Keepitsimple · 51-55, F

@eatpraylove Living the rest of your life. Do you plan on staying with him? What kind of response are you looking to give? I guess you could always make a post explaining that your dissolving your marriage due to his philandering ways or something. 🤷🏻‍♀️

eatpraylove · 56-60, F

@Keepitsimple no, I will not stay with him. I will make him regret.

Keepitsimple · 51-55, F

@eatpraylove I wish you luck. I doubt he cares though.

eatpraylove · 56-60, F

@Keepitsimple I will make him care