Need good ideas for responding to my husband cheating

I know it happens all the time. And now it has happened to me. I want my response to be smart and I want my response to put me in a good position for Karma to take it's course. Also to not negatively affect my potential divorce settlement...

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Zeusdelight · 61-69, M

You thought the grass was greener on the other side, enjoy discovering the weeds:)

Zeusdelight · 61-69, M

that is what I would say to him. You have to decide the unknown is better than what you have - a harder decision

eatpraylove · 56-60, F

there is no way in hell I am staying with him.

Zeusdelight · 61-69, M

That is good that it is a clear decision for you. So would you say what I suggested?

eatpraylove · 56-60, F

no, too mild. I am going to make him pay dearly.

Zeusdelight · 61-69, M

I thought you would use th3 courts for that!