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how do you let a guy down easily?

help. i’m just not feeling it anymore
The only way is to completely honest. Just say, “I sure don’t want to hurt your feelings, but at the same time, I must be honest and tell you I’m just not feeling it anymore.” If he’s mature, that will be enough. He’ll respect you for telling him the truth upfront and for not leading him on.
VolpeTredici · 31-35, M
Can you make him understand that feelings come and go? You just gotta enjoy the good times when they're here.
If not, just be honest. It may hurt, but its real.
SW-User
There's no easy, just tell it how it is.
djcam · M
@SW-User Amen.
Wurkoutgurl · 46-50, F
Just be honest. How would you want it to be if it we're done to you?
SW-User
Don't toy with his feelings. Just tell him the truth
Coppercoil · M
Sneak up behind him and slit his throat first..
Tell him the truth!
kate21 · 26-30, F
WanderLustChick · 31-35, F
Be gracious and honest. Takes a lot of balls to ask a girl out.
breeyaaa · 26-30, F
@WanderLustChick i get that but he’s so sweet & i feel like if i said i’m not feeling it anymore he’d be devestated
Smikezz2 · 46-50, M
@breeyaaa it's better to let him down than to lead him on. That would hurt more.
WanderLustChick · 31-35, F
@breeyaaa gotta be honest.it sucks but it's life. Don't be a coward I'm sure he's a big boy he will find someone new
Reject · 26-30, M
Rejection is never easy. I would just be honest with him about how you feel.
Notanymore · 36-40, M
Tell him that you've decided to choose abstinence....mainly from him
WoodyAq · M
Text message: "Welcome to Dumpsville! Population: you."
SimplyTracie · 26-30, F
No matter what you say or what you do, he’s gonna be devastated. So you may want let his friends know what’s going on in case he wants to hurt himself.
djcam · M
As someone stated before, you just have to lay it down as it is.
NoYou · 26-30, M
Tell him he’s weak and he smells funny
CountScrofula · 41-45, M
How would you want to be let down?
SW-User
Just be straight up with him
Flirt with his sister

 
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