how do you learn to love yourself for who you are?

My first kiss was when I was 27. So. You see. There's hope for everyone. :) A boyfriend won't come in your life when you're depressed though. Only when you become your own best friend. Once you reach the time that you don't need anyone else to be happy, he'll come into your life totally unexpected. You can use passion flower to calm yourself down and feel better, I use it sometimes too, but only after talking with the doctor about it. I'm very sensitive myself, I just try to make sure to find the right balance in my life, like, sleeping in a calm room, doing some craft, be by myself when I feel like losing my temper, meditate... Whatever helps and makes you feel better, do those things, and then .. with time.. have patience with yourself.. lots of patience... things WILL get better. You'll see. Don't worry about your looks. We, women, always do. thats in our nature ;)