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Does your family have your back?

rckt148 · 61-69, M
actually they do
my Granddaughter lipped off to me 2 weeks ago and the rest of the family is still mad at her except her Mom who thinks it was my fault just for saying "to show some respect" ,
She called me down in the middle of a song I was playing for the family
She could not wait until I finished to ask me to say the blessing ,so she tells me off like I did not get the memo she was ready to eat
,a kid who has not supported herself a day yet calling her Grandpa down who took care of her when he dead beat Dad ran out on her and her Mom ,,in my family ,has no place disrespecting her elders ,ever
So the rest of the Family wants me to have a separate fathers day even excluding my Daughter and Granddaughter ,(until she apologizes ,the rest of the kids would have been made to deal with it right them ,but she threw a crying fit over it and her Mom upheld her ,saying I should have kept my piece and let it slide ,,,OH HELL NO !!!!! none of the other kids would have ,she is no better
We respect our enders ,,even I still do and I am 58 .
I am over it so I won't do that ,but God help her if she disrespects me again
I'll put her over my knee like the spoiled child she is
My kids will tell you(except my oldest I did not completely raise )
I don't disrespect my Dad ,you better not try it either
(Not once in my life ,Did I ever disrespect my Grandparents or Parents ,they would have hurt you ,,,)
so yea the 2 I raised ,my son and 3 of my 4 grandkids have my back ,,
the other Granddaughter usually does too ,,but she just Graduated with honors ,2 scholarships and she is buying a motor home so she can be independent ,so she is a little full of herself right now
what she fails to realize ,,is her Aunts finished school at 17 and 18 not 19 and were both in their own homes by 18 ,not a motor home next to Mom and Dad ,their own homes ,and they went on to college without scholarships
so she is very smart ,,but not any better then anyone else ,,she is just acting very arrogant right now and the whole family is tired of it
she was not raised that way ,,but she is allowed to back talk her step dad ,so now she thinks she can Grandpa too ,,,,,,,Wrong ,,,I made sacrifices for all of them ,,,none of them are back taking me ,or calling me down
Especially one who has yet ,not really had to support herself a day ,,she is still living out of her Mom and step Dads pocket ,,she is still far from grown ,
She and her Mom (thats her baby and I get that ) are the only ones who do not get the rest of us do not tolerate arrogant teens ,and we stick together ,,
if I shun her ,the rest of the family will too
they have all already asked me to for Fathers day to send her a message ,,I am Grandpa ,you do not show me disrespect
Since my entire family serves God ,being shunned is a big deal
my oldest has unjustly shunned me for 7 yrs ,so that is one of her Daughters problems ,,He Mom got away with disrespecting me ,so now she thinks she can too
We are a very tight family for a reason ,,I raised them that way ,Family is everything ,,all for one ,one for all ,this is the only problem we have had in 9 years ,,,not many families I know can say that
We all know who blesses us ,and why
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They try to get it with their knife blade but I stay away from them.
JimminyChristmas · 56-60, M
Only the portion they could hack off before I got away.
LadyWioness · 56-60, F
Yes. I found that out today.
Care to share? @LadyWioness:
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yeah i come from a tight nit family
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Only when I am perfect.
seneca · 70-79, M
In no way,no 😐
TacoCat · 22-25, M
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Curlychords · 36-40, F
Yes I am pretty lucky.
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