What is it called when a person likes being single but envies couples?

@Discombobulatedbunny: what do you mean?

@BigDana27: You want your independence and the intimacy of companionship. you want it all. you know, have your cake and eat it too... that sort of thing.

@Discombobulatedbunny: ok....I kind of get it

@MrBrownstone: how?