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Do you find yourself wanting to change a lot of things about your partner ?

Surely if you want to change them maybe they weren't the right choice in the first place..
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No, I don't want him to change for me ... I love him as he is ...I think some people go into relationships with rose colored glasses and aren't realistic...people are who they are from the get go , they shouldn't change for anyone ...either accept or go
Primnproper · 56-60, F
@Chernobylplayground: absolutely spot on!
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@Primnproper: thank you for best answer :)

shaelan · 41-45, M
I wouldn't change a thing.

The point of relationship is not to change your partner, but to create sacred interaction spaces, through close and intimate behavior.

Doesn't sound like the venue for change to me, but acceptance and sweet surrender.
Primnproper · 56-60, F
@shaelan: love the sound of that and totally agree my friend.
hminuk · 61-69, M
She was the right choice but has changed over the last few years.
Primnproper · 56-60, F
@hminuk: humour gets you through...lol
hminuk · 61-69, M
@Primnproper: It sure does. :O)
Primnproper · 56-60, F
@hminuk: ☺
cheesyAF · 31-35, M
No. She has her flaws just like everybody else. They are a part of her and make her who she is, the girl I fell in love with. She's perfect to me.
Primnproper · 56-60, F
@boringAF: that's awesome.
Cosreal · 36-40
All I want from him is to take more initiative on his health. Otherwise, I adore him!
Primnproper · 56-60, F
@Cosreal: yes I worry about mine in that area.
Nope. Gave up on that longggggg time agooooooo.
Primnproper · 56-60, F
@CereBellum: probably for the best..lol
@Primnproper: Totally agreed. Just wish sometimes. . .
No...I love him they way he is.
Primnproper · 56-60, F
@mynameisrose: great glad I'm not alone here..lol
@Primnproper: 🤗
yeronlyman · 51-55, M
we should focus on changing ourselves
that we have some control over
inside out not outside in

*just thinking out loud*
Primnproper · 56-60, F
@yeronlyman: totally agree with that concept.
Malina · 51-55, F
Yes.. and yes I didn't chose the right partner.. AGAIN., sigh
Primnproper · 56-60, F
@Malina: nor did I the last time but this time I didn't rush into anything and just took my time until that perfect one for me came along.
Malina · 51-55, F
Maybe 3rd time will be the perfect one for me..lol@Primnproper:
Primnproper · 56-60, F
@Malina: it was for me..I wasn't going to go for it again but I did and it was the best decision. I've ever made.
Paschar · 70-79, M
Heavens NO , I want her to stay just as free and full of spunk as when I first met her . 💘
Primnproper · 56-60, F
@Paschar: just how it should be..🤗
Paschar · 70-79, M
@Primnproper: 💓
sighmeupforthat · 46-50, M
well yeh, i want her to be in immaculent health.
Primnproper · 56-60, F
@sighmeupforthat: obviously we want to help them keep the best health possible.
sighmeupforthat · 46-50, M
@Primnproper: we're trying.
Primnproper · 56-60, F
@sighmeupforthat: hope it works out for you, my hubby and I both look out for each other on that score, we have a treat now and then but predominantly we are both very sensible..
BozoBoy · 36-40, M
I'll be lucky to even find a partner. To any ladies on this post, I'm available
Primnproper · 56-60, F
@BozoBoy: lol...you will at some point.
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Primnproper · 56-60, F
@Kimmler: I just don't understand why people choose a partner then want to spend time changing them into what they want them to be.
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Primnproper · 56-60, F
@Kimmler: depends what they are trying to change..if it's things for health reasons then maybe..
Noble · 56-60, M
Not everything, but certainly some.
Primnproper · 56-60, F
@NobleDebaucher: why are they very bad or just things annoying to you or things for their best interest?
Noble · 56-60, M
Primarily, lack of depth. ...unfulfilling.
Primnproper · 56-60, F
@NobleDebaucher: was that not there from the beginning..
Ironicman · 56-60, M
People don't change. They just find new ways to lie.
Primnproper · 56-60, F
@Ironicman: I like that..most probably true.
FeetAreFantastic · 41-45, M
All I'd want to change is the color of her toenails.
FeetAreFantastic · 41-45, M
@Primnproper: Yea I mean, is that really asking too much?
Primnproper · 56-60, F
@FeetAreFantastic: well it can be a chore...maybe you should offer to do it for her...lol
FeetAreFantastic · 41-45, M
@Primnproper: maybe? what did you expect I'd do? 😊
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Primnproper · 56-60, F
@Kimmler: it's obvious to most when we talk about change we are talking about personal traits..my husband is very particular about that so I don't need to watch him.
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Primnproper · 56-60, F
@boldtimer: that is exactly how I love my husband to so totally understand that..

 
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