Define A "Societal Angel" Or "Angel Of Society"

whether optimistic or pessimistic, whether positive or negative its your view

as for me. the way i see it is: not to offend people, being an angel in the society is about OBEDIENCE & SUBMISSION or what some people call the People Pleaser, when one tries to make everyone happy but just can't. or when one tries to fit in and be accepted by sacrificing the individuality of the self... well i wouldn't exactly call it "self-righteous" but more of like...the question is why is Individuality being antagonized by the church? [as some people say] because freedom means devil? because we all be obedient and equal to one another? because vertical individualism shouldn't exist?

Define what is "being good". altruism the most likely answer...still what is bad? "being yourself?"