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Are you a people pleaser?

Is it difficult for you to say no to someone? 馃檪
JarJarBoom41-45, F
I'm guilty of this, like this one chick totally conned me being a boardmember of a charity and I couldn't say freaking no
Same with this girl who asked me to take her shift tonight. I was so excited about being off馃槀
JarJarBoom41-45, F
I wish i could come up with excuses on the spot...some people are pros at that
LadyBronte56-60, F
Yes. But I am changing that. I do say "no" to a lot of things now. It is getting easier everyday. I think I'm turning into something akin to a toddler who seems to forget every other word except "no".
SweetMae70-79, F
I should follow your example.
LadyBronte56-60, F
It is difficult at first, but it can be done. Good luck.
Lol I'm getting better with it as well
Goralski51-55, M
Im an persistent perpetual people pleaser
SW-User
@Goralski: purple? :D
Goralski51-55, M
@CinnamonWorlds: purple petunias in an pot
nedkelly61-69, M
One of my biggest weaknesses is having trouble saying no
LadyBronte56-60, F
I was exactly the same way. And I was miserable a lot of the time for it.
SW-User
I say no. But they always find a way to convice me. Fuckers
Lmfao. I have a friend whos always put in that postion as well
SW-User
@Poptartinvasion: they always have a good excuse and i just cant say no anymore. Ur friend and i are fucked lmao
MondayschildF
No I am not. I can and will say no if need be.
BearDownChicago41-45, M
Absolutely. I go out of my way to do things for people. End up taking on too much
PfuzylogicM
Not my forte, however change the term "people" to "customer" and I go out of my way!
MondayschildF
@Pfuzylogic: Oh yes, candles, table linens. I cannot wait!!馃嵕馃
PfuzylogicM
@SBelle: *Pulls out the chair for a wonderful meal at the table*
馃嵎 "Salute"!
馃槝
MondayschildF
@Pfuzylogic: This will be a night to remember馃尮馃彽馃尫馃槝
SW-User
Actually, it's because I'm not assertive enough. Thankfully my friends stand up for me and it's helping me say no to people now lol
SW-User
Yes, I am very opinionated online, but I'm really neutral irl because I'm pretty non confrontational
I guess that explains why I get into drama online 馃槀馃槀
@QueenOfQuirk: lmfao omg same 馃槀馃槀
SW-User
And we mostly detest the same people 馃槤鉁岋笍
SweetMae70-79, F
Yes, I am.
UnsureForNow41-45, M
Depends on the situation, but I generally like to make sure everyone is happy.
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[c=#7700B2]Yes... I guess I am... if you say so... :)[/c]
Steve4256-60, M
I used to be. I had a moment of clarity one day driving listening to the radio. Broadcaster asked what we thought about and solicited the listeners to call. And I thought I don't know what to think because there is no one here to base my view on..... 15 years ago.
[c=#BF0080]Not difficult for me at all.[/c]
@TheLadiesMan: [c=#BF0080]Were we both pornstars lol?[/c]
JohnOinger41-45, M
@Pinkrainbowkisses: lol Yes it probably means I will meet you someday
@TheLadiesMan: 馃槀
JohnOinger41-45, M
@Poptartinvasion so what do you think of PurpleIntelligence & would you do him
I don't know who that is. So no. Would you?
JohnOinger41-45, M
@Poptartinvasion: yes
Enchanted56-60, F
I am a giver and don't ask for much in return but can also say "no" most of the time when needed.
SW-User
I say no whenever I need to :L
SW-User
It's easy to say no.
JohnOinger41-45, M
You say no to me all the time馃槨
JohnOinger41-45, M
@Poptartinvasion: ok no lol
Degbeme70-79, M
I am actually. :)
SW-User
Sigh yes
juiceyangel33331-35, F
Yes at times
SW-User
Fuck no.
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popmol22-25, M
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