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Why are the most interesting people so closed off emotionally?

That's 3 people now that I've found interesting but they don't want to be friends on Facebook and don't let many people in.
curiosi · 61-69, F
Generally the most interesting ones are the introverts as they are the deep thinkers, they are also very choosy about who they will let in.
SW-User
Yes
SW-User
That is true
SW-User
They've been burned
PaleandPolluted · 36-40, F
Well I'm very private on Facebook because of stalkers and ex friends so perhaps they had the same happen to them.
SW-User
Very possible, I am the same way.
SW-User
They realize they can entertain you for a few minutes at best, once you start getting into their real boring lives the mystic quality has ended.
PaleandPolluted · 36-40, F
I often wondered that there may be something about them that they don't want me to know..
har7070 · 51-55, M
People who visit this site usually do it anonymously and secretly, often keeping their public life and SW life separated.
TJNewton · M
Amen to that
PaleandPolluted · 36-40, F
I mean people in real life
GlassDog · 41-45, M
Perhaps it's that you simply find closed-off people interesting.
PaleandPolluted · 36-40, F
It would seem that way but I didn't know they were like that before I tried to be friends.
GlassDog · 41-45, M
@Paleandpolluted86: I often think people online find other online people interesting because, of the parts of their personality that are hidden, you can use your imagination to fill in those bits however you'd like. Maybe it's the same with you and people who are hiding part of themselves.
Steve42 · 56-60, M
probably damaged from getting close to people before.
TJNewton · M
True
SW-User
protecting themselves..
SW-User
They are scared
SW-User
TJNewton · M
Also true

 
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