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Is it okay to beat my father when he is beating and harassing my mother after drinking ?

taintedprincess · 46-50, F
Yeah , you cannot just let it happen
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None of both. But, you could find some way of showing him why is it bad what he's doing, and that you, your mother, are the only people who could welcome him with open arms, and that, without you, he is nothing.
shadowplay · 22-25, M
yeah let me know how that works out for ya
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:( - Such a complicated situation but you should do some thing to make sure, it won't happened again and again, instead of stopping it for once.
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Justawmn · 36-40, F
Come beat my husband for me. But seriously I feel bad for your mother and im glad she has you because i know what its like. Yea put that asshole in his place.
TestingLimitations · 31-35, M
Look up self defense of a third party. It is your right to beat him, depending on where you live. Just don't take it too far.
darktippedrose · 36-40, F
Don't beat him, just disable him so he won't hit your mom. You could always handcuff him everytime he tries to get violent.
SW-User
Perhaps as a means of last resort. It would likely prudent to offer a warning first, making it clear you will defend her if need be. It's a step fraught with serious unintended consequences; but if it's the only way to help her...? I don't think I could stand by and watch it happen.
MartinTheFirst · 22-25, M
It wont change anything, it will just make his father more dangerous, more alert, more ready. He should say afterwards he has stood up to his father that he'll do it again. He shouldnt hurt his father though.
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You're right, there's soooo much that could go wrong, thus used as a last resort.
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no.. it's sad that you're both violent 😳
MayRey · 56-60, F
Yes, but no witnesses. Ok
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shadowplay · 22-25, M
the best thing you can do is convince your mom to get the hell out away from him. these things never end well
shadowplay · 22-25, M
find the biggest thing you can and blast him with it
PlayaCat22 · M
push him away and lock him up
beat the crap outta him
MartinTheFirst · 22-25, M
shove him to the ground perhaps? just immobilize him, never punch.

 
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