Asking
Only logged in members can reply and interact with the post.
Join SimilarWorlds for FREE »

Why do people get angry at me for telling them what they want to hear?

So they rather have me make them upset? I’m trying to move on with the day to avoid conflict. Oh my best friends asked me for an opinion I just tell them it looks good but then they get upset and annoyed with me. They keep fighting with me until they have to get an opinion out of me. That’s annoying. My guy best friend said, “Look it’s okay to have an opinion. Don’t worry about how we’re going to react just express your opinion for yourself. I wish we didn’t have to drag it out of you!”
Even my dad gets annoyed and says, “Quit agreeing with me! You know I’m telling you some facts you don’t have to agree with everything. Quit doing that.”
My siblings don’t like it when I always tell them what they want to hear her either and they get annoyed because They can’t get an opinion from me. I don’t wanna hurt peoples feelings and I’m too busy trying to make everyone happy but then end up being upset with me and calling me out. Why?
SW-User
Yeah, a lot of ppl are pretty hostile just ordinarily. That's what I can see too.
LaylaTheTallGirl · 18-21, F
@SW-User I don’t understand why -some people get upset when you tell them what they want to hear.
SW-User
@LaylaTheTallGirl Just different types of people I guess. Its hard to say. 🤔
SW-User
[@AutusticYoungWoman] I think some people tend to respond without really thinking about how they're coming across or how they effect people. Yes.

 
Post Comment