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Why is nobody ever happy for me?

My family isn't happy that I'm going to move out to live with my boyfriend. I told my coworkers today and they were all like oh.....
They don't have to like it... you are a grown adult and are more than capable of deciding for yourself what is best for you.
SinlessOnslaught26-30, M
Lol I know people are telling you "don't worry about what others think" which would be ideal but in reality, I can totally understand how that sucks and is hurtful.
SinlessOnslaught26-30, M
@apersonnamedit Out of all the people who reacted like that, is there anyone you trust enough to ask why in a polite way?
apersonnamedit26-30, T
@SinlessOnslaught I might ask my mom
SinlessOnslaught26-30, M
@apersonnamedit If you trust her then I would suggest doing that.
KristinaM36-40, F
That鈥檚 exciting when you move. I鈥檓 happy for you.
SW-User
I鈥檓 happy for you ..
QueenandCrown41-45, F
They might think you're too young to make a move like that. Or have concerns about you being financially prepared. I'm not surprised that your family oppose it, as it's not always easy to let a child move on to the next stage in their life.
ozgirl51226-30, F
Depends on many things.. How long you've been together etc.. They're just thinking of the possible down sides
apersonnamedit26-30, T
@ozgirl512 we were friends before we began dating. We havent been dating super long
ozgirl51226-30, F
@apersonnamedit That's good... Some just rush in...I wish you both every happiness 馃
MougyWolf36-40, M
馃惡 馃枻 馃帳 馃幎
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StarLily51-55, F
Are you happy about it and confident in your decision? If so, let that be all that matters.
JoeyFoxx51-55, M
Why do you need that kind of validation?
apersonnamedit26-30, T
@JoeyFoxx it just makes me feel shitty
JoeyFoxx51-55, M
@apersonnamedit don鈥檛 let people occupy your mind without paying rent
ViperM
Maybe they're concerned?

People can love you and be concerned about an idea.
SinlessOnslaught26-30, M
Huh... Do they have a negative opinion of him?
apersonnamedit26-30, T
@SinlessOnslaught not that I'm aware of.
empanadas31-35, M
idk you well but im happy for you 馃槃
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apersonnamedit26-30, T
@Eyeamhere No they do like him

 
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