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I just need someone to hear me out and listen

You can tell me where I’m doing wrong because I need an unbiased opinion. It’s been one week since I’ve seen the guy I’m in a relationship with and we usually see eachother 2 times a week because I work and I have nursing school. Anyways, I already miss him but I got upset last night on a Friday night where he can talk to me a little bit more since we haven’t seen eachother in one week he had a meeting at like 5:00pm to give him advice on work but he was just late at replying to me all night and in my head I’m thinking he’s probably with his family or talking to his friends but I hate waiting an hour for one response. Like for example I just don’t want to stay up until like 11 or 12 to say goodnight to so I haven’t said goodnight to him the past 2 days I just don’t ask for much just at the end of the day to just idk be more responsive,
gfantasy · 56-60, M
Yes, a relationship implies commitment and if he has "more important things to do" during the time you schedule to chat, then it's a bad sign... I would be greatly annoyed too if I'm chatting with someone and it takes them minutes to reply... If he's busy with something more important than you, he can tell you so and excuse himself, but just ignoring you for long whiles without explanation is rude of him...

P.S. Glad to see you're back, I hadn't see you post in forever and I was starting to worry...
smiler2012 · 56-60
{@lilangel] yes can understand you love him to bits and would love to be together twenty / four seven . you seem to be doubting his commitment and do no trust what he says to what he is doing . you are getting a little clingy i understand you are a loving person . give him space and trust
AntisocialTroll · 56-60, F
Sorry, he doesn't sound like he's very bothered about you. However, it could be you just have different communication styles and it's worth telling him what you've told us and how it makes you feel, see what he says. 🤷‍♀️
I think you are at a stage when you need a relationship to be mutual or it hurts. I wish that you feel better and I think everyone past a certain age knows what you are feeling.
SinlessOnslaught · 26-30, M
Yeah if you're in a relationship and haven't seen each other in a week, he should make you a priority. Did you ask him why it was taking so long?
PhilDeep · 51-55, M
I'm not sure I understand. Do you mean you've not had any word for two days, or just that he didn't respond to that one message that night?
Barny52 · 56-60, M
look passed your feeling and be sensible xx if your both in love you have to be together ,you cant stay apart xxxxx
MURD3RM0NK3Y · 26-30, M
He's got a side piece and she's dropping it to the floor for him
lilangel · 26-30, F
I just think he’s losing interest @MURD3RM0NK3Y
vetguy1991 · 51-55, M
He should have least sent you a message
MarkPaul · 26-30, M
Champagne problems...
lilangel · 26-30, F
@MarkPaul I don’t drink
dale74 · M
How old is he does he have kids etc
SW-User
You're not one of his priorities.
Archtiger · 31-35, M
He is losing interest.

 
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