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SW-User
People are too polarised with what they want seen. They lament when someone goes without a word and have criticism when people do say words before leaving.
So, fuck what anyone else thinks. You do what feels right to you in the moment.
Of course you'd say goodbye to those you interact with at a personal level. It's more the open forum goodbyes I speak of.
So, fuck what anyone else thinks. You do what feels right to you in the moment.
Of course you'd say goodbye to those you interact with at a personal level. It's more the open forum goodbyes I speak of.
BeefySenpie ยท M
Nah, everyone's fighting their own battles and should do what's best for them
If you talked to anyone for some length of time it's polite to let them know though
If you talked to anyone for some length of time it's polite to let them know though
Dusty101 ยท F
Before I left for study...
I sent my closest friends a PM to let them know I was leaving for a bit.
I would never put a post out.
Too many unnecessary comments like "off you go,
Bye now, and attention seeking.โ
I sent my closest friends a PM to let them know I was leaving for a bit.
I would never put a post out.
Too many unnecessary comments like "off you go,
Bye now, and attention seeking.โ
SW-User
If I left I would say goodbye to the people I'm close to. I already have exchanged emails with a couple (I'm not planning on leaving, but just in case).
SubstantialKick ยท 31-35, M
If I ever leave here again, I'll probably just say goodbye to the members who I'm closest to.
SW-User
Maybe if you've been here a long time and have good friends here. If you haven't been here long enough to make friends, then I guess it doesn't matter.
Shutterbug ยท 56-60, M
When people do say goodbye, people jump on them and say itโs not a departure lounge! ๐คทโโ๏ธ
Rose0415 ยท 36-40, F
@Shutterbug Or that it's inconsiderate to [b]not[/b] tell people that you are leaving ๐คท๐ผโโ๏ธ.
Shutterbug ยท 56-60, M
@Rose0415 but also you donโt know whatโs going through their heads either. They may feel unwelcome here even though they had friends.
SW-User
It's all fake anyway. A few connections, but, we don't owe anyone anything
walabby ยท 61-69, M
Often you can't. Batteries go flat. Electricity goes off... Wife walks into the room... XD
HannahSky ยท F
If you're close to certain people, it's better to say goodbye.
KimmyGary ยท F
Ive known some people almost ten years on here who came from e p
Harriet03 ยท 41-45, F
Dramatic exit, maybe! ๐ค
No.
bijouxbroussard ยท F
You canโt please everyone. Some people might think it rude not to say goodbye if you had a lot of friends here. On the other hand, others believe a public farewell is too โattention-seekingโ. I guess itโs an individual choice. ๐
I know if I ever leave there are a few posters I will pm privately to advise and make sure they have a way of reaching me offline, if they want to stay in touch.
I know if I ever leave there are a few posters I will pm privately to advise and make sure they have a way of reaching me offline, if they want to stay in touch.
Donotfolowme ยท 51-55, F
I just send a notice of funeral a week in advance n don't even die in the end.