I love her.

@DarlingSelah what, please tell me more

@DarlingSelah same. It's happened to me before. It upsets me. Like I need to change who I am so people stop assuming that I'm giving them any signals. :/

@assemblingaknob 😯 please don't change who you are.

@MoonlightLullaby what triggered the spark?
Because honestly, at the beginning, when I just started work here, I did have a major crush on her,I remember one time she was talking to me, and I completely drowned into her eyes, like I wasn't listening what she was saying, I was just thinking "omg she is so beatiful", and was just noding the whole time.
But after a while I asked this other person out and then I kinda started getting feelings for the other person and stuff, but it didn't really work out, but all the time I still kinda felt like I love this first person, like not sexual love, but just like I want to see her joyful.
Tbing is I am still not over this 2nd person.

@Dan193 Ours is under different dynamics, as it's a former member from here & we're in different countries. I just stumbled across his profile, and we both wrote, so had that in common. As we kept getting to know each other, we just knew; wondering how we hadn't met sooner. He was attracted to things that everyone else can't stand about me, and I found him to be the most wonderful man of integrity. The spark was felt in banter and only grew. It's still flaming after months. It wasn’t a SW crush, because we're [i]emotionally[/i] connected, and even that hasn’t changed. It's difficult to explain.

@MoonlightLullaby I'm so glad for you. I hope that it is what they call a soulmate.

@MURD3RM0NK3Y I could never. I value that relationship

@MURD3RM0NK3Y are you horney and all the time,?

@Nobody00 I'm a guy so yes

@Jimmy2016 are u married?

@Dan193 Yes I am. But I only looked at her just as a coworker and a freind. I mean I was 58 and she was 28 years old. She is very very attractive woman. My wife has met her a couple of times at our Holiday parties and one year we gave her a ride home as she had to much to drink. She was my buddy at work. My favorite coworker. She's just an all around great person.

@Jimmy2016 These people are so precious, they need to be protected.

@Carazaa Thank you, everyone else was pushing the crush idea on me. Maybe it is just a very good friendship.

@HootyTheNightOwl bit I don't get butterflies

@Dan193 And... just because you don't get all the symptoms (or even different symptoms) of a virus, it doesn't mean that you don't have the virus.

@HootyTheNightOwl Hm, interesting idea. Thank you. You made me think.