Give Me Wings -

He asked her," What gift can I bring you
to prove that my love for you is true
I want to make you mine forever,
there's nothing in this world I would not do.
She said, "Anything I've wanted you have given willingly
so now there's only one thing that I need...
If you love me, give me wings. Don't be afraid if I fly.
A bird in a cage will forget how to sing,
If you love me, give me wings."
He walked over to the window, and silently stared into space.
He said, "I just want to protect you, cause this world is a dangerous
place."
She put her arms around him, she said, "I know you mean well
but there's lessons I must learn for myself...
If you love me, give me wings. Don't be afraid if I fly.
A bird in a cage soon forgets how to sing
you can trust me, give me wings.
If you really love me, give me wings.
She said, "Up above the clouds you can see forever.
I know you and I can learn to fly together."
If you love me, give me wings. Don't be afraid if I fly.
A bird in a cage will forget how to sing,
if you love me, give me wings
If you really love me... give me wings.
Give me wings.

I know she speaks to other guys. I am worried when I see late night texts. Too scared to say anything!

If you don't allow your partner to talk to people of a specific gender, then you don't trust your partner, which means you don't have a relationship

A couple should have friends independently of each other - and they shouldn't be forced to choose the gender of their friends based on what their partner wants.

Anyone who thinks that they can restrict their partner to specific friends or no friends at all without a good reason for doing so needs to seek professional help for their insecurities.

A successful relationship needs to have trust in its foundations and if you can't trust your man or woman, then you shouldn't be in a relationship to start with.

What sort of a deranged stupid arsehole,expects any person to consider entering into an arrangement like that,Slavery was abolished many many years ago..Unless of course that person has no confidence and was bet with the ugly stick at birth,is sadly lacking in the trouser department and is trying to compinsate for it,Failing that they might need to find a dark corner and spank the monkey,because any self respecting adult would tell a person like that to rightly fuck off

When I met my first partner I was 16 and had no family. He made me stop seeing my friends and when I went to work to support us both he spied on me and after work would shout accusations. Years later with him gone, I can finally talk to people and make a few friends without the guilt.

I expect to be allowed to talk to/be friends with whoever I do/am. So I give the same respect. I even allow light/harmless flirting....y'know, more silly playful flirting rather than anything serious.

But, I'm not really a jealous person.

I’m bi. Whoever I date can hang out with whoever because if I don’t trust them what’s the point. Not saying it wouldn’t bother me with certain people but I would work through that myself.

I don’t ever want to be in a relationship where I’m not allowed to talk to someone or where I feel the need to limit who my partner can talk to.

I would never try to dictate who my partner does/doesn't talk to and I wouldn't let them tell me who I can/can't talk to. As long as no cheating is going on I don't who they talk to.

I don't choose my partner's friends. I trust them and don't interfere unless i have reason to believe more is going on. Then i talk to them about it

Oftentimes there are reasons for mistrust, while it makes you look possessive and jealous. No two relationships are the same. But if my partner was speaking to others and was keeping it secret or the contents of the conversations secretive that's where I would draw the line. If I ask a question I deserve an answer as does he. If he spent his time talking to others and ignoring me there wouldn't be any lines. Nor anything left to discuss.

I agree it should be just friendly chit-chat no flirting.

And he showed me that convo and you are exaggerating cuz that's not what was said.

And yes I'm one of those people when my partner tells me that it's none of my business what he talks about to others. I never told him that. I have nothing to hide.

Nah that's possessive. Course they can talk to others, but if they forming close relationships, that's crossing a line.

Thank you for BA.

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I have women friends, and I have no issue with my gf corresponding with her male friends

If I can't trust her enough to be okay with her spending time with friends, no matter their gender, then I shouldn't be in a relationship with her. If the trust isn't there then we've already lost what is, to me, one of the most important things for a healthy relationship.