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Have you ever been accused of something entirely opposite of your moral principles ?

Ryannnnnn · 31-35, M
Oh well welcome to the internet haha.
EG. "You're a nazi!!!"
"You're a racist!!"
"You're a commie!!"
"You hate x people!!"
"You're ignorant (they say as they make an ignorant assumption)!!"
"You're (everything I feel about myself but project onto others)!!"
I could go on lol
wackidywack · 22-25
@Ryannnnnn well, have you?
Ryannnnnn · 31-35, M
@wackidywack Since I was a teen yes. My reaction was always to fuck with people when they accused me of being the opposite because it'd annoy me and i'd find it funny how wrong they were. So I got that all the time because it'd just further their assumptions about me lol.
Ryannnnnn · 31-35, M
@wackidywack Tbh though I'm very honest and clear about what I am these days. Still though if somebody wants to tell me otherwise I don't really care tbh. If their judgement is that bad in the first place then it doesn't bother me what they think.
NickiHijab · F
Oh yes.

And that's something I don't tolerate anymore. I used to because I put more into trying to be "understanding" of the why's behind people doing or saying what they do and although I'm not completely opposed to this approach, i've realised that in doing this I was enabling and not asserting boundaries where necessary.
wackidywack · 22-25
@NickiHijab did you tell them off when it happened ?
NickiHijab · F
@wackidywack I actually didn't lol. I felt bad for them because of where they were. Even though the accusation was furthest from being true, I knew it had more to do with where their mind was at and the shit they were going through.

But it happened 2 times after it and that's when I should've said something.

I nip it in the bud now. Looking back I would've just put the person in their place because empathy/patience often gets mistaken for permission to continue and fuck that. I value integrity just as much and if someone continues to come for it, they should face the rebuttal🤷🏽‍♀️
FloorGenAdm · 51-55, M
And when you fight back they say they were joking.
wackidywack · 22-25
@PrivateHell what did you do of it?
@wackidywack got angry at first. Then realized it didn't really matter what they thought.
wackidywack · 22-25
@Lilymoon What was that like for you?
Lilymoon · F
@wackidywack I considered the source and got over it. 😁
Keepitsimple · 51-55, F
All the time here
Does being randomly called a cannibal count?
wackidywack · 22-25
@canusernamebemyusername I'm not sure sir, the answer is upon you
@wackidywack Well humans would probably be the worst tasting thing in existence. Lol
iamelijah · 26-30, M
iamelijah · 26-30, M
@wackidywack It hurts, of course.
wackidywack · 22-25
@iamelijah and what did you do ?
iamelijah · 26-30, M
@wackidywack Just suck it. It is useless defending yourself. It makes you even more guilty.
SW-User
Yep. Some peeps are damn good at projection.
RubySoo · 56-60, F
wackidywack · 22-25
@RubySoo how was that for you?
RubySoo · 56-60, F
@wackidywack a friend of mine misinterpreted something i told them and took great offence telling everyone who would listen i was shaming her and her values. What id said to her was just me passing on stuff id learned over the years that might help her see how others view things. It wasnt me being judgemental.....as i agree wholeheartedly with her right to behave as she does....i was merely stating (as an old bird) how society in general works.
wackidywack · 22-25
@revenant do you think it was valid for them to accuse that of you ?
revenant · F
@wackidywack nope it was total fabrication to undermine me
wackidywack · 22-25
@rioazul What did you do?
rioazul · 22-25
@wackidywack I’d rather not talk about it.
DeWayfarer · 61-69, M
Many times. 😔
SW-User
I recently had my 29th anniversary of being on the Internet. Wuddyou think?
wackidywack · 22-25
@ImperialAerosolKidFromEP when was the time?
Donotfolowme · 51-55, F
Yes yes yes
wackidywack · 22-25
@Donotfolowme did you tell it wasn't true ?
Donotfolowme · 51-55, F
@wackidywack of course
SW-User
Yes, by a friend. I told him to fuck off and he took that as proof that he was right. Idgaf. I'm not taking unfair false accusations from anyone.

 
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