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MarkPaul · 26-30, M
You stopped talking to me... and then you left!
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Adaydreambeliever · 56-60, F
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popmol · 22-25, M
@Adaydreambeliever ooh ;(
TheSirfurryanimalWales · 61-69, M
I expect everyone to disappear but it’s damned annoying when they don’t tell you....
popmol · 22-25, M
@TheSirfurryanimalWales thats true!
summersong · F
Yeah, it’s always sad. Especially when you aren’t sure why or what happened 😔
popmol · 22-25, M
@summersong yeah ;(
greenmountaingal · 70-79, F
Yes, in fact, devastated. We had been friends messaging back and forth for about 3 months, and had even talked about my visiting her town and meeting her. Suddenly she ghosted me. I got off EP then and did not use a computer for about 6 months.
Angelwings89 · 41-45, F
@greenmountaingal it's hard when you invest all that time and energy
greenmountaingal · 70-79, F
@Angelwings89 It wasn't just the investment of time and energy; I thought we had a close relationship. She kept telling me how much she liked me, how good it was to have a friend in her life who understood her so we'll, etc. Now I believe she was deliberately setting me up for disappointment and heartache.
Angelwings89 · 41-45, F
@greenmountaingal people can be so unpredictable. It's hard to trust
SW-User
Yes... It's sad that when they come to an end.
popmol · 22-25, M
@SW-User truly!
Not really. My online friends have never been very close to me. Most of the people I've known online and had PM's with have been trying to get me into a sexual relationship I wasn't interested in and it was a little bit of a relief when they got bored and went away.
I've only had one online friend who spent much time in my life and now he's my husband. 🤷♀️
I've only had one online friend who spent much time in my life and now he's my husband. 🤷♀️
popmol · 22-25, M
@CleverFunnyNameGoesHere well otherwise you wouldn't have married him huh xD
@popmol I had received an overly negative diagnosis and at the time thought I was dying and didn't have long to live. So, if I hadn't already been in a relationship with him, I was just going to find someone else to marry since getting was one of the things I wanted to do before I died. He's just lucky we met before I got sick.
Now though my blood work is coming back much better than it was last year and I'm so happy.
Now though my blood work is coming back much better than it was last year and I'm so happy.
popmol · 22-25, M
@CleverFunnyNameGoesHere so now you've your marriage and the good news! this is great :)
SoLeRiMix · 31-35, M
Not sad but I do not like if someone leaves without informing. An emergency and one's work schedule is understandable but manners and etiquette count too. Nothing bad about leaving when one has to but leaving without informing is. Doing it once is acceptable but not every time. Have come across some individuals like that in here. 🙂
SoLeRiMix · 31-35, M
@CleverFunnyNameGoesHere Please don't feel bad about anything mate! You're doing good. Cheers! 🍻
SW-User
I've been on sites like this for over 15 years and have lost too many to count
popmol · 22-25, M
@SW-User you poor thing ;( i've been on website like this from the age of 12 and whenever i lose someone i'm truly sad
SW-User
@popmol I understand, it's hard when we lose someone we have developed a bond with and even online it can still be a strong bond so it's hard when they just leave or worse if they suddenly ghost you. I think i have become more resilient to it as i've got older, but initially it was quite upsetting.
popmol · 22-25, M
@SW-User me too but stil lthough my heart just breaks!
Dusty101 · F
Not sad.. Just I often wonder why!
PiecingBabyFaceTogether · 26-30
Yes. Miserable not just sad. We talked almost daily for 7 years!! They could have been 9 now 🙁
popmol · 22-25, M
Picklebobble2 · 56-60, M
Yeah but that's the nature of social media.
Especially on sites like this.
Especially on sites like this.
popmol · 22-25, M
@Picklebobble2 ;(
Lilymoon · F
Yeah this place is like a revolving door. 🤭🙄
passingby8 · 31-35, F
Yeah,but i moved on eventually
popmol · 22-25, M
@passingby8 thats good to hear that it went okay for you
passingby8 · 31-35, F
@popmolIt took a while.Making new friends helped too.
popmol · 22-25, M
@passingby8 thats lovely to hear :) i wish i could do that but i get too attached to people :(
greenmountaingal · 70-79, F
Can anyone here explain why people do that?
popmol · 22-25, M
@greenmountaingal no idea
Lostpoet · M
There's been a couple of people
Yup...I'm not sure what happened to her. 😑
Ursamajor · 46-50, F
No! We are free
Adamski24 · 41-45, M
No, its the internet not real life.
Even in [quote]real life[/quote] im not worried.
Life is too short to worry and care about others.
Even in [quote]real life[/quote] im not worried.
Life is too short to worry and care about others.
ExtremeNext · 31-35
@Adamski24 😲yes it's real 😲
Ryannnnnn · 31-35, M
Yeah I've had that happen a couple of times. Usually at the point where we were really getting on.
DarkCrazyArtistGeekGamer · 31-35
I did but then she came back & then I dreamt about kittens :D
popmol · 22-25, M
@DarkCrazyArtistGeekGamer thats great to hear :)
Viper · M
Yeah, but sadly it does happen
SW-User
[c=#4C0073]dont be sad, .. bye ! xD[/c]
popmol · 22-25, M
@SW-User don't leave o holy one!
SW-User
@popmol [c=#4C0073]kneel and worship! 😈[/c]
popmol · 22-25, M
@SW-User gladly 🙏 finally someone i can worship
acpguy · C
No, I am not a candy ass.
ExtremeNext · 31-35
I cry for a few days then can't remember who it was
popmol · 22-25, M
@ExtremeNext well at least you get over it!
LadyJ · F
Yes its only happened once
Kingfish88 · 31-35, M
Crestfallen.
popmol · 22-25, M
@Kingfish88 ?
Kingfish88 · 31-35, M
@popmol exactly
popmol · 22-25, M
@Kingfish88 aah
SW-User
Yes 😔
popmol · 22-25, M
@SW-User i'm sorry :(
SW-User
@popmol part of life.
popmol · 22-25, M
@SW-User i hate life then!
Yes, a few times...
popmol · 22-25, M
@HootyTheNightOwl ooh i'm sorry to hear that!
AuRevoir · 36-40, M
Yeah...
Magenta · F
Yes.
SW-User
Fuck em
popmol · 22-25, M
@SW-User sad :(
deadgerbil · 22-25, F
Yes
popmol · 22-25, M
@deadgerbil its sad isn't it :(
InOtterWords · F
I miss them, and hope they are safe and well.
popmol · 22-25, M
@InOtterWords hope so too
Fungirlmmm · 51-55, F
No
popmol · 22-25, M
@Fungirlmmm ooh :(
Tres13 · 51-55, M
No
PirateMonkeyCabinet · 36-40, M
Very much so.
PirateMonkeyCabinet · 36-40, M
@popmol It isn't, it totally sucks... but it is a part of life. It happens.
popmol · 22-25, M
@PirateMonkeyCabinet wish it didn't!
PirateMonkeyCabinet · 36-40, M
@popmol Understandable, it can be quite painful. On the flipside, for some such events makes it even clearer just how valuable those that do last are to them, and helps one cherish those more.